Tuesday, October 14, 2025

Don’t Ignore the Whisper, When Your Body Speaks, Listen

 A Wake-Up Call Close to Home – how a heart scare and arthritis diagnosis reframed my retirement priorities.

A year ago, I was fortunate that my doctors caught a heart issue early. It was a wake-up call: without health, everything else, retirement dreams, family activities, even day-to-day routines, becomes harder. At the same time, I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, which makes walking painful. The silver lining? Both conditions were caught early, and I was able to begin treatment. That made all the difference.

My wife has had her own challenges. She broke her back three years ago, and again just last month. The pain is constant and severe. She faces tough choices every day, including the decision to avoid narcotic painkillers in favor of less addictive management strategies. Watching her, I see what strength looks like.

Our stories may sound dramatic, but they’re not unusual. Many seniors live with pain or hidden health issues. The key difference comes down to how quickly we recognize the signs and seek help.

A Story of Delay

Take Tom, for example. He was a neighbor in his early 70s who began experiencing shortness of breath. Instead of going to his doctor, he told himself it was just “getting older.” Weeks later, he collapsed in his garden and ended up in hospital with advanced heart disease. Had he reached out earlier, treatment might have been simpler and recovery smoother.

Listening to Your Body

The lesson is simple: pay attention. That persistent pain, sudden fatigue, or unusual shortness of breath is not “just age.” It’s your body asking for attention. Too often, pride or fear keeps people from seeing a doctor. But the earlier a condition is diagnosed, the more options you have.

Simple Choices That Add Up

Even small daily actions matter:

  • Scheduling regular checkups.
  • Taking prescribed medications consistently.
  • Staying active within your limits.
  • Reaching out when something feels “off.”

These aren’t dramatic steps, but over time they keep retirement from slipping into a cycle of illness and regret.

The Foundation of Everything Else

Retirement is supposed to be the time when you finally enjoy that for which you’ve worked. But without health, enjoyment fades. Whether it’s travelling, volunteering, or spending time with family, health is the foundation that makes those dreams possible.

Listening to the warning signs, and acting on them, is the first step toward protecting that foundation.

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