Sunday, June 7, 2026

Picture this or Listen to this

You may have noticed that in many of my posts I lean on a familiar invitation: “picture this.” It slips in like an old friend, taps you on the shoulder, and says, “Come with me, I’ve got a scene to show you.” That habit didn’t come out of nowhere. It was shaped in a classroom, where I watched students lean forward when something looked clear, when ideas were laid out like a map instead of a maze.

Picture this (there I go again): a classroom buzzing just before lunch. One student is sketching a diagram so detailed it could hang in a gallery. Another is quietly rereading notes, tracing lines with a finger like they’re following a trail through the woods. These were the visual learners, at least, that’s what we called them. They seemed to grasp things best when they could see them, charts, graphs, diagrams, even well-organized paragraphs that didn’t wander off like a distracted storyteller.

So, when I started writing posts, I naturally leaned into that strength. I painted scenes. I built little word-pictures. I tried to make ideas visible. Not because I had a grand theory about it, but because it felt like handing someone a flashlight instead of asking them to walk in the dark.

But here’s where it gets interesting, and where, if I’m honest, I have to smile a bit at myself.

I could just as easily have written for the ear instead of the eye.

Instead of “picture this,” I might have said, “listen to this.”

Listen to this: the low hum of conversation in a coffee shop, cups clinking, a chair scraping softly across the floor. A voice rises just enough to tell a story, pauses for effect, then lands the point like a well-timed punchline. Some people remember that moment not because they saw it, but because they heard it. The rhythm, the tone, the little pauses that make meaning stick.

If I were writing with sound in mind, I might swap out my visual cues for something more like this:

Instead of saying, “picture a winding path through a forest,” I’d say, “hear the crunch of gravel under your feet as you walk a quiet trail, the wind moving through the trees like a soft whisper.”

Instead of “imagine a bright summer morning,” I’d go with “listen for the screen door slamming, kids laughing in the distance, and a lawn mower droning somewhere down the street.”

Same idea. Different doorway.

And here’s the twist in the tale, the part that gently pokes at all of us who spent years trying to match teaching styles to learning styles like we were pairing socks.

A lot of research has stepped in over the years and said, “You know what? This neat little system we’ve been using, visual, auditory, kinesthetic, it doesn’t quite hold up the way we thought.” In other words, teaching someone only in their preferred style doesn’t necessarily make them learn better or remember more.

That can feel a bit like discovering your favourite shortcut actually takes longer.

But before we throw out the paintbrushes and turn off the microphones, there’s something worth holding onto.

What does help people learn and remember is richness. Variety. Engagement.

It turns out the brain isn’t sitting there saying, “Sorry, I only accept information in visual format between the hours of 9 and 11.” It’s far more flexible, and far more interested in meaning, emotion, and connection.

So maybe the value in “picture this” was never just about visual learning.

Maybe it was about invitation.

It was a way of saying, “Step into this moment with me.”

And if I add a little sound, a little movement, maybe even a touch of humour, well, now we’re not just looking at an idea, we’re experiencing it.

Let me give you one more example, just for fun.

Visual version:
Picture yourself putting off a small task, say, fixing a squeaky brake. The calendar pages flip, the problem sits quietly in the corner, and then one day, bam, you’re looking at a repair bill that makes your eyebrows climb halfway up your forehead.

Auditory version:
Hear that faint squeal every time you tap the brakes? You turn up the radio to drown it out. A week later, it’s louder. Two weeks later, it’s practically singing a solo. And then comes the mechanic’s voice, calm, steady, and just a little too cheerful, telling you it’s no longer a “quick fix.”

Same story. Different sensory hook. Same lesson… with maybe a slightly more expensive ending.

If there’s a takeaway here, it’s not that we’ve been doing it wrong. It’s that we’ve been doing it partially. Like telling a story with only half the instruments in the band.

So, I’ll probably still say “picture this.” Old habits, after all, are loyal companions.

But I might start inviting you to listen more often too.

Because the real goal isn’t to match a style, it’s to make the message land, linger, and maybe even make you smile along the way.

And if I can do that while gently reminding myself that I don’t have to paint every scene like a landscape artist… well, that’s a lesson worth hearing, and seeing, at the same time.

Saturday, June 6, 2026

What Happens When You Get Happy Enough

 My friend said something to me the other day that I haven't been able to shake.

He looked at me over his coffee, that knowing look people get when they've lived long enough to stop caring about looking silly, and said:

"Royce, did you know that if you get happy enough, you can actually hear colors and see music?"

I laughed. Then I stopped laughing.

Because he wasn't joking. Not entirely.

Think about it. When was the last time you were truly, deeply, unreasonably happy? Not just "fine." Not just "not stressed." But the kind of happy where the world looked different. Where problems that seemed enormous yesterday suddenly felt manageable. Where you found yourself smiling at a stranger for no reason at all.

In that state, strange things happen.

You paint without numbers. The rigid rules you usually live by, the shoulds, the musts, the "what will people think", they loosen their grip. You colour outside the lines, and it turns out beautiful.

You eat dessert and lose weight. Not literally, of course. But when you're truly happy, food becomes nourishment again, not a weapon, a comfort, or a punishment. You enjoy the cake without the guilt. And somehow, that peace matters more than the calories.

You spend money and have more. Not because of magic. But because happy people spend differently. They spend on experiences, on connection, on things that actually matter. And those investments pay dividends that no bank can match.

You love unconditionally. The grudges you've been carrying? They suddenly feel too heavy for the journey. The small slights you've been rehearsing in your head? You forget what they were about. Love flows more freely because you're not guarding yourself against hurt that hasn't happened yet.

You feel as if you can live forever. Not in a denial-of-death way. In a "this moment is so full that time itself seems to pause" way. In a way that makes eighty years feel like a beginning, not an ending.

I can hear you now. "That's lovely, Royce. But you don't know my life. You don't know the stress, the bills, the losses, the news cycle, the family drama."

You're right. I don't know your specific battles. But I know this: happiness is not the absence of problems. Happiness is the ability to breathe anyway.

The world has always been mad. There has never been a golden age without war, without worry, without heartbreak. The difference is not in the world. The difference is in where we place our attention.

Happiness does not require you to ignore real problems. It requires you to stop letting those problems steal every single moment of joy you could otherwise have.

You don't get to "hear colors" overnight. But you can start moving in that direction today.

Stop scrolling. The news will be there in an hour. The arguments will continue without you. Put the phone down. Look out a window. Notice that the sky is doing something interesting.

Do one thing you used to love. Before life got so serious. Before you became the person who always says, "I'm too busy." Do that thing. Even for ten minutes.

Find someone who needs encouragement. The fastest path to your own happiness is making someone else a little happier. Call a friend who's struggling. Write a note. Show up.

Forgive yourself. For the mistakes. For the weight you've gained. For the patience you lost. For the years you spent grinding instead of living. Let it go. You did the best you could with what you knew. Now you know more.

Expect good things. This sounds simple, but it's profound. Happy people expect that things might work out. Not naively. Not without planning. But they wake up believing that something good could happen today. And that belief changes how they see everything.

My friend was teasing me, of course. You can't literally hear colors or see music. But you can get close. You can reach a state where life feels richer, fuller, stranger, and more wonderful than you ever imagined possible.

It's not about ignoring the stress and madness. It's about refusing to let them have the final word.

So, here's my invitation to you. This week, get a little happier. Not for anyone else. For yourself. See what shifts. See what becomes possible.

You might be surprised.

And if you figure out how to eat dessert and lose weight, please call me. I have questions.

"We don't laugh because we're happy. We're happy because we laugh." ,  Probably someone who got happy enough, said this.

Friday, June 5, 2026

Dad Jokes for June, One for Every Day

 Share one each morning. Watch the groans roll in. That is how you know they are working.

June 1 – Why did the scarecrow win an award? Because he was outstanding in his field.

June 2 – What do you call a fish with no eyes? A fsh.

June 3 – Why don't scientists trust atoms? Because they make up everything.

June 4 – What do you call a fake noodle? An impasta.

June 5 – Why did the bicycle fall over? Because it was two-tired.

June 6 – What is brown, hairy, and wears sunglasses? A coconut on vacation.

June 7 – Why did the math book look so sad? Because it had too many problems.

June 8 – What do you call a pig that does karate? A pork chop.

June 9 – Why did the cookie go to the hospital? Because it felt crumbly.

June 10 – What do you call a sleeping dinosaur? A dino-snore.

June 11 – Why did the student eat his homework? Because the teacher said it was a piece of cake.

June 12 – What do you call a bear with no teeth? A gummy bear.

June 13 – Why did the golfer bring two pairs of pants? In case he got a hole in one.

June 14 – What do you call a can opener that does not work? A can't opener.

June 15 – Why did the banana go to the doctor? Because it was not peeling well.

June 16 – What do you call a cow with no legs? Ground beef.

June 17 – Why did the toilet paper roll down the hill? To get to the bottom.

June 18 – What do you call a dinosaur with an extensive vocabulary? A thesaurus.

June 19 – Why did the picture go to jail? Because it was framed.

June 20 – What do you call a lazy kangaroo? A pouch potato.

June 21 – Why did the gum cross the road? It was stuck to the chicken's foot.

June 22 – What do you call a factory that sells generally okay products? A satis-factory.

June 23 – Why did the stadium get so hot after the game? Because all the fans left.

June 24 – What do you call a snowman with a six-pack? An abdominal snowman.

June 25 – Why did the computer go to the doctor? Because it had a virus.

June 26 – What do you call a sheep with no legs? A cloud.

June 27 – Why did the man put his money in the freezer? He wanted cold hard cash.

June 28 – What do you call a dinosaur that crashes his car? Tyrannosaurus wrecks.

June 29 – Why did the orange stop rolling down the hill? It ran out of juice.

June 30 – What do you call a bear caught in the rain? A drizzly bear.

Thursday, June 4, 2026

At-a-Glance: June 2026 Celebrations

 

At-a-Glance: June 2026 Celebrations

Date

Celebration

Where

Best for seniors?

All June

National Indigenous History Month

Nationwide

Storytelling, craft demos, seated events

All June

Pride Month

Nationwide

Daytime picnics, accessible parade zones

All June

National Seniors Month (ON, NS, MB)

Participating provinces

Free events, intergenerational activities

June 1 (observed)

Easter Monday (federal holiday)

Nationwide

Quiet cafés, matinees, relaxed family tea

June 5 (Friday)

National Donut Day

Nationwide

Free treats, coffee chats, no cooking!

June 21 (Sunday)

Father’s Day

Nationwide

Pancake breakfasts, car shows, ball games

June 21 (Sunday)

National Indigenous Peoples Day

Nationwide (statutory in NWT & YT)

Powwows, bannock tasting, seated drumming circles

June 21 (Sunday)

Summer Solstice

Nationwide

Evening golden-hour strolls, popsicles at sunset

June 24 (Wednesday)

Saint-Jean-Baptiste Day

Quebec only

Sugar-shack picnics, parades, French sing-alongs

June 27 (Saturday)

Canadian Multiculturalism Day

Nationwide

Food samples, dance troupes, "passport" activities

June 26 onward (Fridays)

Summer Fridays

Quebec & growing nationally

Early-bird suppers, quieter museums, 2 PM ice cream

Late May–early June

Eid al-Adha (community events)

Muslim communities nationwide

Reserved seating, tea & dates, henna painting

Plan ahead for August

Civic Holiday / Natal Day / BC Day / NB Day / Heritage Day

Most provinces (not QC or PEI)

Lawn-chair fireworks, classic car parades