Sunday, November 3, 2024

I''m retiring who am I now?

Over the years I have met many people, who, like me, had trouble when they first retired. Here are some early warning signs and how you can take steps to overcome the issues so that you have a smooth or graceful transition into retirement:

The first issue is an unresolved Identity or Purpose Concern. What I mean is that if your identity is closely tied to your job and you haven’t thought about how you’ll find fulfillment without it, you may struggle with a sense of loss or lack of purpose. I call it the “I used to be somebody” syndrome.

There are some steps you can take while you are still “somebody” to help ease the transition to being “invisible”. First, explore New Roles by reflecting on what you enjoy outside of work. What values or passions drive you? Consider volunteering, mentoring, or pursuing part-time consulting in your field to stay connected while transitioning. This is not easy if your whole life has revolved around your job. This may take months if not years. To help try using tools like vision boards or journaling to clarify what a fulfilling life looks like post-career. A good book to read is  "Designing Your Life" by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, They offer strategies for rethinking career transitions and designing a purposeful retirement.

Remember you are not on this journey alone many others have travelled this path before you and have left resources to help you such as Encore.org This group focuses on purpose-driven work post-retirement, offering ways to transition into roles that bring meaning. As well there are many websites to help you find volunteer opportunities aligned with your skills and passions.

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