Planning for retirement is not just a financial
process, it is a transition to do something else, whether it’s travel, or
living a dream — it’s a new period of personal discovery.
The ability to say goodbye and express your feelings is an important process that we all go through when we decide to retire. When someone retires somewhat abruptly or unexpected for whatever reason, there is a lot of unfinished business.
Doing nothing gets boring quickly and is
unfulfilling for most people. Those who have outside interests and hobbies
while they are working are going to adjust better to retirement. For
individuals whose whole lives are consumed with work, there will be a sudden
void when they retire. For many, work is where much of their identity and
satisfaction is obtained.
After working for years, often at the same job, or in the same industry, people who retire may struggle to figure out how they still fit in and contribute.
After working for years, often at the same job, or in the same industry, people who retire may struggle to figure out how they still fit in and contribute.
The ability to say goodbye and express your feelings is an important process that we all go through when we decide to retire. When someone retires somewhat abruptly or unexpected for whatever reason, there is a lot of unfinished business.
Professionally, their lives may have concluded, but
people want to believe that their “contributions will continue to count and
mean something.”
We have an identity when we work for 40 years
somewhere. To transition from a work identity to something else that people
will respect” is something that should be thought about before retirement.
Transitions by nature are always very difficult. Even
so-called good transitions like the birth of a child, buying a home, getting a
new job, or going to college cause a lot of change in a person's life, and
change is stressful. The key to dealing with transitions is to be as flexible
as possible. Anytime you have a significant change in role -- such as returning
to work after raising children -- the ability to adjust and assume another role
in society is very important.
Retirement planning, Leach suggested, incorporates the “mental, physical, as well as spiritual health in addition to your financial well-being.”
Retirement planning, Leach suggested, incorporates the “mental, physical, as well as spiritual health in addition to your financial well-being.”
People who haven’t thought out their future
properly are easy to pick out — not so much because they didn’t plan well
financially, but because they didn’t know what else to do.
People who fail at retirement, go back to work.
One of the reasons is that people undergoing transitions becoming
depressed. When this happens, their energy levels and motivation decrease, and
they may even have problems with their sleep and appetite. When these symptoms
persist and people find they are preventing them from actively participating
and enjoying life that is the time to seek help.
Be sure, though, to
give yourself a little time. For most people after you retire there is some
initial euphoria about not having to go to work, but if several months into retirement,
you find yourself struggling and feeling depressed, it may be time to seek
help. Sometimes just talking to someone and getting an objective opinion about
what's going on can help people sort things out in their mind and will help
them formulate a plan to help adjust to their change in role
Active living is
important to successful retirement. In addition to spending more time on
passive leisure, retired women and men also spent more time socializing than
when they were constrained by workplace demands. Indeed, the data from Stats Canada, suggest a dynamic social
life. Two thirds of retired women and men got together with friends and/or
family outside the household each day.
As well, retirees
were more likely to participate in and to spend more time on, active leisure
activities than employed mid-agers. More than half of the retired population
(50% of women and 59% of men) went for a walk, played cards, or participated in
hobbies and crafts each day.
Nearly 17% of retired
women participated in activities such as walking, jogging, hiking and running for
nearly 1½ hours per day. Participating in mentally stimulating games, cards,
puzzles and board games also was more common among female and consumed more of
their time Women who were retired from the labour force also were more likely
to do home crafts. Participation rates in active sports for women keeping house
were also high for retired women.
Retired men were far
more likely to walk, hike, run, or jog than retired women. Participation in
games, cards, puzzles and board games increased from just over one hour before
retirement to more than 1½ hours after retirement. Not surprisingly, golf
showed the longest time commitment; participants spent 3.7 hours a week on the
game.
Retirees appear to be
happier than people who have to work. Factor analysis indicates that happiness
correlates strongly with a number of time pressure indicators such as: striving
to accomplish more than one can handle; having no time for fun; constant stress
from not having enough time; feeling trapped in a daily routine; and finally,
that sinking feeling of not having finished everything that was planned at the
end of the day. Not surprisingly, reducing the time commitment to the job and
having more autonomy in choosing and scheduling activities eased time pressures
and led to greater individual happiness. Interestingly, men were somewhat more
likely to report they were very happy than their female counterparts
Boomers will be
retiring in greater numbers over the next few decades. We have benefited from medical advances, a
prosperous economy and expanded educational opportunities and will become not
only the largest retirement population ever, but also the healthiest, wealthiest, and most powerful
politically and economically. Many forecasters have taken the reality of Boomer
retirement to mean economic and social catastrophe will befall our society
(Thus the need to increase retirement and cut government pensions to put the responsibility
on the individual). Others see the upcoming retirement tsunami as one of a
cultural transformation leading to a more peaceful and caring society. We can
only be sure retired boomers will revolutionize the prevailing attitudes and
activities of the “senior” population. Being a senior may well mean becoming a
sonic boomer or a zoomer and a very good thing as long as we can make the
transition from work to retirement.
Information for this blog was drawn from Days of our lives: time use and transitions over the life course: The transition to retirement: When every day is Saturday, published in 1998 and the full study is available here and from Planning for retirement is about more than just the money by David James Heis published here
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