Monday, December 16, 2019

These desires haunt me.


As we go through life, we find that we desire different things out of life. We may desire love, money, fame, understanding, parental love, a job or a friend. When I was living my life, I came across a few people that I thought tried too hard. They desired friendship and became annoying in their attempts to please the person or people they wanted to befriend them.

They wanted advancement so they became annoying in their attempts to curry favour with the bosses so they would be noticed and promoted. They wanted to love but they became annoying in their attempts to win the person they wanted to love them.

Sometimes going full speed to get what you want works, but I have found that for all things and non-things that you may ever want that sometimes the fastest way to get them is to forget them.

I don’t mean putting your desire out of your mind, but I do mean that you should focus on just being the most amazing human being you can be. If you do that then I think you have a better chance of getting what you desire out of life. The reason is that we all like to be associated with winners, who are nice.

As humans, we love to be around people who are warm, friendly, pleasant, and have confidence in themselves. If you work at being your best at some point all of your heart's desires, spoken or unspoken, will be drawn to you more powerfully than a magnet is drawn to steel.

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