My brother just lost his pet of 14 years and is debating getting a young dog to replace the one he just lost. He will be 70 in a few years. While pet ownership can undoubtedly bring joy and companionship into the lives of many, it is essential to consider the specific needs and challenges that seniors over the age of 70 may face when choosing to bring a new pet into their lives. The benefits of pet ownership are well-documented, but it's equally important to ensure that the pet's requirements align with the senior's abilities and lifestyle.
Seniors over 70 may find it more prudent to consider adopting older or low-maintenance pets rather than young and energetic ones. This is not to say that seniors cannot have pets, but it's essential to choose animals that match their physical capabilities and energy levels.
Young pets, like puppies and kittens, often require a significant amount of attention, training, and exercise. Seniors may face challenges in meeting these demands due to reduced mobility and energy levels. It can be overwhelming for them to housebreak a puppy or chase after a playful kitten. Additionally, young pets may be more prone to accidents and can unintentionally cause injuries to their senior owners.
On the other hand, older pets, particularly those in their golden years, can be a better match for seniors over 70. Older animals are often more relaxed, and well-behaved, and require less intensive exercise and training. These pets can provide companionship without the same level of physical demands, making them a more suitable choice for seniors who may struggle to keep up with the boundless energy of young animals.
Furthermore, older pets tend to be more emotionally stable and adaptable, which can be particularly beneficial for seniors who may have specific medical needs or a quieter living environment. Senior owners can still experience the joys of pet ownership and build meaningful bonds with their furry friends by opting for more age-appropriate animal companions.
While the benefits of pet ownership are evident, it's essential for seniors over 70 to consider their physical limitations and lifestyle when choosing a pet. Opting for older or low-maintenance animals can provide the same companionship and emotional benefits without the potential physical challenges and demands that come with young pets. By making thoughtful and age-appropriate choices, seniors can enjoy the many advantages of pet ownership in a way that enhances their quality of life. So, I am discouraging my brother from getting a young pet, but I do hope he gets an age appropriate one.
I am very surprised by this post. Like most of us I meet a wide range of people regardless of age with varying physicial and mental health needs that affect their daily decisions. In my thinking, a pet choice is not "an age" issue it is a life style appropriate discussion. Like many families during COVID we found ourselves in need of replacing our family dog and we are certainly over the age of 70. We matched the "dog" to our lifestyle and the responsibilities of having pet. We did not use age as a factor in our thinking but just as we did in our 30s it was about can we care for this pet we are picking. The reality is that our dog will likely outlive us if things follow a normal path but there at least 3 grandchildren who care more about where "Finn" will go than anything else. The message here - "pick a pet" that matches your lifestyle applies regardless of age. It is not that the message is wrong - it is the "singling" out that someone of a certain age suddenly has to change how they think about pets.
ReplyDeleteRoyce, I am surprised you made this an "age appropirate" issue. It is really a person's life style is the central issue - young or old. My husband and I are past 70, needed to replace the family dog during COVID and now there are at least three grandchildren lined up looking for a specific bequest for "Finn" to go to them as opposed to other "riches". At the same time, I see almost everyday clients in their 40s who have to make a pet choice based on a lot of factors - Your comments are correct obviously - but it is unfortunate you put the emphasis on "age-appropriate" which feels like ageism. https://benrose.org/-/resource-library/staying-active/combating-ageism?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiAivGuBhBEEiwAWiFmYaNVEmWgAlnGA37nSidff2P-i-s7oS17s0k4TgEPQ_IZAsEzzhmrwxoCpSYQAvD_BwE
ReplyDeleteThank you for your perspective, and I apologize if my emphasis on "age-appropriate" came across as ageism. I've been advocating against ageism in this blog since 2011, and understand the importance of lifestyle considerations rather than solely focusing on age. Pets indeed bring joy and companionship regardless of age, and it's crucial to consider various factors, including lifestyle and capabilities, when choosing a pet. Your experience with replacing your family dog during COVID and the excitement among your grandchildren for "Finn's" bequest highlights how pets become cherished family members regardless of age. I appreciate your insight and will continue to promote inclusive discussions about pet ownership that consider all aspects beyond just age.
DeleteI want to thank Royce who took the time to respond to my concerns. As an elder law attorney - I am likely over sensitive to the issues as I see how aging changes so many things for people from loss of control to being marginalized. It is often a "hard sell" to help people understand that "words" have an impact and meaning. I admire Royce's work and consistency and again thank you for the response.
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