Sometimes, instead of a pie, you get a sandwich. There are costs associated
with being part of an interdependent, intergenerational family unit.
It is not uncommon today for Boomers, also referred to as “The Sandwich Generation,”
to be simultaneously providing financial assistance to their grown children,
ageing parents and, in some cases, even their
grandchildren. One quarter
of Canadian Boomers
surveyed had one or more
parents who require regular assistance, and the majority (59%) of Boomers
who had children age
18 and over were still providing financial
support to their
children.
On the other hand, a U.S. survey
found that 40% (or
2.5 million) of all grandparents whose grandchildren live with them reported being responsible for most of their basic
needs. These
added responsibilities not only diminish the Boomers’ inheritances
and existing
retirement nest-eggs; they may also reduce or eliminate any hopes of inheritance for
subsequent generations.
Risk factors such as longevity, the rising cost of living and
intergenerational obligations, threaten to consume legacies
that would have otherwise been transferred to future generations. But subtle differences in
the way each generation views the world and the impact of outside
forces beyond their control may also significantly shape
the way money is channelled to the next generation.
Both seniors and
Boomers agree on the importance of leaving an inheritance. However, seniors are likely
to feel more obligated than Boomers to do so. The
reason for this distinction may be that
seniors grew up with an intimate understanding of deprivation, first surviving the Great Depression, and then fighting in the Second World War. Because they had endured such hardships, some seniors may feel compelled to provide
financial assistance to others. In contrast,
Boomers were raised in a time
of relative peace and affluence, and
have generally grown up accustomed to a life of abundance.
Socially, they are idealists who
value financial self-
sufficiency, making the world a better place for all and enjoying a high standard of living.
Unlike the seniors,
they may consider leaving a legacy
as a bonus instead of a requirement. As a result, intergenerational differences
in perspectives on inheritance will affect
the distribution of wealth.