Showing posts with label attitude time management. Show all posts
Showing posts with label attitude time management. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Time Management for retirees

When I retired, I expected my calendar to stretch out before me like a wide-open range—no meetings, no deadlines, just freedom to do as I wanted. I had counseled people for years on how to plan for retirement, and yet when it was mine, I found myself waking to days that were indistinguishable from each other. It did not take long to see that retirement without planning was not freedom—it was pandemonium.

Since 2010, I’ve been writing about retirement issues, guiding seniors through this transition, and helping them create fulfilling, purpose-driven lives. As an Advisor to the Senior Advocate for BC, President of the Wilson Seniors, and Chair of the Tri-Cities Senior Action Society, I’ve seen countless retirees struggle with an unexpected challenge: what to do with all this time. Many believe that once they retire, time management no longer matters. But here's the reality—time management is not about extracting productivity from every minute; it's about optimizing your days so they don't get away from you.

Envision time as an essential spice to life. Like the way you need the proper spices to provide zest to a dish, you need the proper handling of time in order to bring zest to retirement. We are given 24 hours a day, and already we utilize a portion of it sleeping. What is left over is up to us to shape—but with no purpose, it's easy to get caught in habits that leave us unfulfilled.

One of the biggest retirement lessons is that everything changes. That's life. But that doesn't mean we can't plan. Having some structure in your day, loosely set, allows you to do the things that matter most. That might be taking time for hobbies, exercise, volunteering, or time with friends and family. Without structure, days pass, and before you know it, months have gone by without doing what you enjoy.

For those still working part-time or volunteering, time management is equally crucial. One of the most frequent complaints I hear is the constant barrage of emails. Email is an essential tool, but it can also be a distracting burden. Allocating specific time every day to review and answer messages—instead of allowing them to control your schedule—opens up time for more substantial pursuits. Unsubscribing from unwanted mailing lists, sorting significant emails into folders, and setting up automatic filters can maintain digital clutter under control.

Next, there's the authority of the notes. Whatever you're doing—jotting reminders, making appointments, arranging meetings—good note-taking keeps things together. If you're part of group meetings, pre-checking with participants will iron out essential points and eliminate wasted time. These small habits pay dividends, making your day run more efficiently and smoothly.

But time management is not so much about things to do—it's about balance. Scheduling time for yourself is no less important than scheduling time for work. Whether spending the morning on walks, reading, hobbies, or just sitting over a cup of coffee without any frantic hurry, such self-indulgence is what makes retirement a worthwhile experience.

Retirement is not filling every second with duties, but nor is it letting time go unmarked. By creating soft habits, living in the midst of what matters, and working with interruptions, you can intend each day. The reality is, the beauty of retirement isn't so much in having time—it's in creating the time valuable.


Friday, January 15, 2021

Time passages

We are still in the middle of the second wave of the Pandemic. Isolating is the norm and conversations with friends are done via phone, or by Facetime, or ZOOM. However, a vaccine is on the way, but until then, finding things to do that are interesting is becoming time-consuming, and somewhat stressful. Stores are still open, but who has any money to spend, I do not.

I thought I had digitized all my old slides, but I found about 200 more that I need to review. The thought of going back in time to decide what memories to keep and pass down and what to toss is, for some reason, weighing heavily. I am not sure why maybe I do not want to be caught in the time passages that happen when you are forced to look back and make decisions about what to keep so at this time I don't want the years go falling into the fading light, as said in one of my favourite songs written by Al Stewart:

It was late in December, the sky turned to snow

All-round the day was going down slow

Night like a river beginning to flow

I felt the beat of my mind go

Drifting into time passages

Years go falling in the fading light

Time passages

Buy me a ticket on the last train home tonight

Well I'm not the kind to live in the past

The years run too short and the days too fast

The things you lean on are the things that don't last

Well it's just now and then my line gets cast into these

Time passages

There's something back here that you left behind

Oh time passages

Buy me a ticket on the last train home tonight

Hear the echoes and feel yourself starting to turn

Don't know why you should feel

That there's something to learn

It's just a game that you play

Well…

 

Thursday, April 4, 2019

Generalization huts time management

Time management is not hard, it is, in fact, simple. Since we are all different, we should learn which skills work best for us. Simplicity is a state of mind we want to cultivate to manage our time wisely. 

Many of us use the KISS formula, but some say this is Keep It Simple Stupid, while I like the Keep It Simple Smart approach. Keeping things simple is the process of thinking smart. Simple is more of a humble attitude that holds a modest position in life.

This is one definition, but others define simple as lacking in knowledge and expertise or not socially or culturally sophisticated. So, to understand the fine line then between simple smart and simple stupid is opening a door to success. 

Avoid generalizing, as this is a sign of keeping it simple stupid. Generalizing is a form of making irrational decisions based on one or more statistics. Keeping it simple helps us to stay alert of our situation. Keeping an open mind when it comes to planning and organizing can help us to achieve steps to our long-term goals. 

Simplicity makes a difference when a bad situation arises. If your mind is stressed, then you might or might not make a wise decision to resolving the problems. Therefore, when a problem develops, rather than stress about it, analyze the problem carefully to find a solution of resolve. Most problems are not as complicated as they may appear, so we can think sufficiently if we feel confident, knowing the issue is addressable. 

If we over generalize, our mind is blocked from seeing the main points that can terminate the problem. Do not put the cart before the horse in other words. When we train our minds to stay alert, and cultivate good traits that enforce our course in life, we are on a well-rounded road to success and our time is managed accordingly. 

If you have a problem with remembering your tasks, don’t be ashamed to post notes wherever you will see them daily. Even if your spouse believes you are a slob, forget their illusional state of mind, and focus on what works best for you by keeping it simple and adhering to an open mind.  

Saturday, August 26, 2017

Another view

Ever thought about life, I bet you have, so here are my thoughts;

Life? I kind of see it like this, second after second, illusion after illusion, miracle after miracle... an unending parade of opportunities to catch yourself in the act of creating.  

What have you created with all those seconds you have at your disposal?