Monday, July 20, 2020

Here are some things that surprised me when I retired.


I made retirement work and found I was happy!
I was a workaholic, some called me a type A personality and I thought I needed work to be happy, I was wrong. The good news is that we generally get happier in retirement so I was not alone! After the stress of building careers and raising kids, most people’s happiness seems to actually increase in retirement.

In fact, you’ll likely be shocked to learn which two ages in an adult’s life are likely to be at your happiest. Experts from Princeton University and the London School of Economics and Political Sciences found that happiness peaks at the ages of 23 and 69.

Home repairs and other unexpected emergencies can wipe you out
The study found that “shock” events — retirement surprises — had a significant impact on the assets of many retirees. More than one in three respondents experienced financial shocks that depleted at least 25% of their assets.

The majority of retirees are worried about their ability to handle financial shocks:
Home Repairs: Only 18% of retirees are very prepared to handle home repairs.  

Homeownership is expensive. 
Where I live the economists estimate that the cost of homeownership is about 2,000 a month. This is for repairs, maintenance, insurance and taxes. Many of the most unexpected repairs are not cheap. From repairing a roof to replacing a broken furnace or air conditioning unit, home repairs can cost thousands of dollars and make a serious dent in retirement savings, especially for retirees who are often still paying off a mortgage.

When retirement is on the horizon, take a look at your home and consider what major repairs you might need to make in the next ten to 20 years. Either make them before you retire or set aside some money to take care of them in retirement.
We were lucky we had a small inheritance which allowed us to upgrade and take care of many household repairs, so we are good for at least another 15 years.

If you are among those worried about potential home repairs, do consider downsizing and other ways to reduce your housing burden.

Other surprise bills are car Repairs. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics in the UD only 27% of retirees feel very prepared to manage car repairs or replacement
This Pandemic made us realize that our family members need our support. We are the sandwich generation.  And, only 8% of today’s retirees feel very prepared to help family members. If you can before you retire try setting aside funds for emergencies. It can help reduce worry.

Many health care expenses will be paid out of pocket
In the United States, Fidelity Benefits Consulting released its latest retiree health care cost estimate, and it is again a sticker shock for people nearing retirement.

According to the report, a 65-year old couple retiring today will need an average of $280,000 (in today’s dollars) to cover medical expenses throughout retirement, up from $245,000 in 2015.

These costs include Medicare premiums, co-payments and deductibles, prescription drug out-of-pocket expenses. Also, as the report from the Society of Actuaries notes, most retirees do not have dental insurance and dental expenses are not covered by Medicare. Routine eye care, hearing aids and the exams for fitting them are also not covered by Medicare.

In Canada we have our basic health care covered but we face the same issues as our neighbours in the US do, in that most retirees in Canada do not have dental insurance and dental expenses are not covered. Routine eye care, hearing aids and the exams for fitting them are also not covered.

Sunday, July 19, 2020

Are we citizens or are we tax-payers? Words matter

I read the following by Norlaine Thomas and I thought I would share her rant:
So, I had a bit of a rant on Twitter today. Well, more than one, actually. Because the world is pissing me off a lot lately. But this one, I beg your indulgence. I think it is really important to all Canadians and to the future of this country.
Canadians, language matters. Conservatives know this. They have been deliberately changing our terms of reference for years. We have seen them reframe lobbyists as "partners", and regular folks with local concerns as "special interest groups" (negative connotation).
In this pandemic, it is even more critically important for us to consider the well-being of others. We need to recognize the community we belong to. I would like to suggest a push-back against one of the most insidious changes to popular speech championed by conservatives.
For many years now, conservatives have referred to Canadians as "tax-payers". This has been done deliberately and consistently. And that choice of words has consequences in the way we think about one another.
We need to think of Canadians as "citizens" not "tax-payers". It makes a difference. When conservatives speak to "tax-payers" they are immediately excluding all those who are disabled, elderly, unemployed or working poor, from the body politic.
Those people are citizens too. Monetizing people is wrong. It leads to statements like Kenney made about people "with modest levels of human capital" deserving a lower minimum wage. And it leads to people accepting that our value is determined by our financial contribution.
Our value as human beings is not determined by how much we can contribute to the wealth of corporate entities. We are citizens, first and foremost, regardless of our ability to work, or our ability to pay taxes.
We can see now, in the shocking report from the Canadian Armed Forces, that seniors in Long-Term Care facilities have been treated barely better than animals in an industrial farm. Warehoused at the lowest possible cost, to continue bringing in a profit from storage fees.
The conservatives push to reopen the economy regardless of whether it is safe or not, saying it's mostly old people who are dying, so that's alright, suggests they view our senior citizens the way an industrial farm owner views a cow that can't give milk anymore.
In short, of diminished or spent ability to contribute to profitability. Effectively, a liability on the balance sheet. And this is also reflected in the way conservatives have treated veterans. If they can no longer be useful to the country, they are expendable.
We need to remind ourselves that we are, first of all, members of a society and citizens of a country. We are not "inputs" to an economy. Our value does not depend on our ability to create wealth for corporations. Whatever conservatives may urge to the contrary.
It is inconvenient to the conservative narrative to recognize the humanity of those who are destitute, addicted, infirm, elderly, disabled, or even the wrong colour or gender or sexual orientation. The conservative narrative seeks both to justify disenfranchising those considered "surplus", with no monetary offering to make, and also to divide us and make us accept selfishness and greed through the devaluation of others.
It is time we take back our humanity. It is time we recognize ourselves and all our fellow citizens as having a crucial role in creating and growing our society. We all have non-monetary contributions to make.
Even the most vulnerable among us, the least able to be self-sufficient and contributing, offers the rest of us lessons in compassion, empathy, responsibility, patience, and caring, an opportunity to appreciate and find joy in things far more valuable than money.
I encourage everyone to stop using the term "tax-payer". We are Canadians, we are citizens, we are community members, we are people. We are not units of production or lines in a ledger. We are not "human capital stock". We are not here to make someone else rich.
We are here to live our lives. To love and dream and explore and find meaning. To help one another. To enrich our society with art and music and science and important ideas. To protect the earth for the future. To invest in a better quality of life for all.
The word "tax-payer" does not begin to define us. Let's stop using it.

Saturday, July 18, 2020

Resources to help fight racism.


This document is intended to serve as a resource to white people and parents to deepen our anti-racism work. If you haven’t engaged in anti-racism work in the past, start now. Feel free to circulate this document on social media. 

The document was compiled by Sarah Sophie Flicker, Alyssa Klein in May 2020. To see the complete list go here. Thanks to my friend Christie for this information.
To take immediate action to fight for Breonna Taylor, please visit FightForBreonna.org.

Resources for white parents to raise anti-racist children:
Articles to read:
Videos to watch:
Podcasts to subscribe to:


Friday, July 17, 2020

Some jokes for my grandson with a story as well.


Q. Why do amoebas get their own room when they go to prison?
They are single-cell organisms
Why did the florist refuse to place flowers on the graves? He was afraid that he too might end up “pushing daisies”.
Q. If people were rent my house and they wanted to keep some pet ants, how many could they keep?
Ten ants
I before e except after c has been disproved by science
A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package.
“What food might this contain?” the mouse wondered.
He was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.
Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning:
“There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”
The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said
“Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it.”
The mouse turned to the pig and told him
“There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”
The pig sympathized but said
“I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers.”
The mouse turned to the cow and said
“There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”
The cow said
“Wow, Mr. Mouse. I’m sorry for you, but it’s no skin off my nose.”
So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer’s mousetrap alone.
That very night a sound was heard throughout the house – like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.
The farmer’s wife rushed to see what was caught.
In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught.
The snake bit the farmer’s wife.
The farmer rushed her to the hospital and she returned home with a fever.
Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup’s main ingredient.
But his wife’s sickness continued, so friends and neighbours came to sit with her around the clock.
To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig.
The farmer’s wife did not get well; she died. So many! people came for her funeral, the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.
The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.
So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn’t concern you,
Remember: when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk. We are all involved in this journey called life.