But how do you measure a successful life? Wealth, career progression, power? Should happiness be the only measure of the success of one’s life? What about the number of other people whose lives you improve?
What
happens when we faced problems that often come along without warning and
without any time to refer to the manual. We worked through them and in doing so
we discovered there are no right answers.
What
is a successful retirement? What do I have to do to achieve a successful
retirement? How often do you wish someone who is retiring “a long, healthy, and
happy retirement”? Are these three measures of a successful retirement? If so,
why do we not have control over any of them?
How long a person lives is not
normally in our control, our lifestyle, and our genetics play an important role
in our longevity. A person can exercise regularly, eat healthily, and watch their
weight but that does not guarantee a longer retirement. Doing all of these
might contribute to a healthy retirement but again there is no guarantee. Does exercising,
eating healthily, and controlling weight guarantee happiness? Only if you can
achieve the goals you set yourself, if not you may end up unhappy.
What
does happiness mean? Happiness depends upon the individual. Some people need
constant social interaction. Others need their own space and isolation. Travelling
and the excitement of new experiences may be essential for some but for others
they need to have a routine within which they feel comfortable.
Money
cannot buy happiness. It is a much too complicated commodity to be that simple.
However, struggling through life with insufficient income is depressing. Many
in debt suffer from poor mental health but others are happy.
The
significant news is those who have retired with adequate retirement savings
will be able to manage. However, one barrier to their happiness will be the
difference between their income and the amount required to meet their
retirement aspirations. These retirement aspirations could be what they want to
do for themselves. Others will want to pass onto their children and
grandchildren as much of their wealth as possible.
So, if you want to at least have a
chance at having a happy retirement, then having enough money set side is an important
part of the planning. If you are like me, you may not have taken retirement
savings seriously until you reached age 50. Saving the money required starting
at that age is awfully hard, but it can be done, but if you are younger than 50
and can save please start. Someone asked what’s the best time is to start
saving for retirement and the answer is now.