Treasure the Friends Who Remain

As we grow older, our circle often becomes smaller.

That isn't necessarily sad.

It simply reminds us how valuable each remaining friendship really is.

My friend's words continue to echo in my mind:

"Old friendships have to be appreciated, preserved, and savoured while we can."

None of us knows how many opportunities remain.

What we do know is this:

A phone call made today is never too early.

A visit today is never wasted.

A laugh shared today becomes tomorrow's cherished memory.

And if your old friend tells the same story for the fifth time...smile.

You've probably told them yours six times.

That's what old friends are for.

Make a list of five people who have shared your life's journey.

Over the next month, contact every one of them.

Friendships are one of life's greatest gifts. They deserve to be celebrated while we still have the chance.

Growing older means saying goodbye more often than we'd like, but it also teaches us the true value of the people who remain. September is a season of gratitude and harvest. Perhaps the richest harvest of all is the friendships we've gathered over a lifetime. Tend them with care, share a laugh whenever you can, and never miss an opportunity to tell an old friend, "I'm glad you're part of my story."

Make New Memories While You Can

 It's wonderful to remember the past.

It's even better to create one more memory together.

Meet for coffee.

Take a walk.

Play cards.

Visit a favourite place.

Or simply sit together and solve the world's problems, something old friends have probably been doing for decades anyway.

Invite an old friend to spend time together this month.

Don't wait for "someday." Today's conversations become tomorrow's treasured memories.

Labour Day, Friendship Needs remembering Too

As you celebrate Labour Day, think about the fact it wa planned, it was just did not happen, it was put into the calendar so we would remember, so people could plan events and celebrations, and we did. Think about your old friendships they need to be maintained. 

Cars need tune-ups.

Homes need repairs.

Even dentures occasionally need adjusting.

Friendships need maintenance as well.

A friendship doesn't fade because people stop caring. It usually fades because everyone assumes there will always be another tomorrow.

Sometimes there isn't.

Schedule one regular call each month with an old friend.

Put it on your calendar just like a doctor's appointment. Consistency keeps friendships alive long after busy schedules disappear.

Don't Wait for a Funeral

Too often we tell people how much they meant to us after they're gone.

Wouldn't it be nicer if they heard it while they were still around to laugh, smile, or tease us about getting sentimental?

Friendships deserve celebrating before the memorial service.

Tell one old friend exactly why you appreciate them.

Not because it's their birthday.

Not because they're ill.

Just because today seemed like a good day. Kind words are far more meaningful when the person can hear them.