According to
the bible I am in the latter days of my life. Psalm 90:10s states, "As for
the days of our life, they contain seventy years, Or if due to strength, eighty
years".
In Aboriginal
society, I could be an Elder. An Elder is a very important member of First
Nation, Métis, and Inuit communities. The term Elder refers to someone who has
attained a high degree of understanding of life. The big challenge is that it
really depends on the culture or community to define what makes an Elder. One
common trait that I think all seniors have is the need to strive to show by
example by living our lives according to deeply ingrained principles, values
and teachings. So, here are some teachings that you may find interesting.
Working made
me realize that people who “hate getting old “are idiots. You are allowed to
hate becoming ill, becoming infirm, becoming depressed …. but don’t hate
getting old it is far better than the alternative.
I am lucky to
reach my age, I know that, and I am grateful.
Memory is a
fickle friend, sometimes she stays with you and sometimes she leaves you when
you most need her.
Certain
memories last a lifetime, and they will never leave you, some you wish would,
but they are like the "cat" who always came back no matter what you
do. Other memories you want to stay but they keep slipping away and then rush
back like the tide. In 1969 getting married, in 1963 listening in shock to the
news of Kennedy's death; in 2010 seeing my grandson for the first time. Camping
in Spain in the 1970s, In 1976 watching my daughter being born; watching my
mother fight for her life. Seeing the Sydney Opera house.
Being a
teacher…and seeing people at their very best.
Actions
always speak louder than words and I tend to trust those who tell me they will
do and do than those who tell me they will do and don't.
Friends are
life, but at some point, they start to leave you, treasure them.
I no longer
put up with bad behaviour, bad music, bad films or toxic people.
I don't watch
news coverage on tv. I say what I think more, and I never talk about politics, or gun laws, or post a seemingly innocuous blog without thinking about it.
I now
recognize that real friends are real in so much that they don’t rationalize affection,
praise, or support. They just accept you.
I sleep if I
can in the afternoon.
I think about
what we did without phones and the internet and wonder what would happen if we
went back to those days.
Be true to
yourself; do things you want to do. Be what you want to be and help others to
do the same.
If you love
someone, tell them. Tell them as often as you can.
Move forward
into your next year by embracing a new skill, a new career, or a new experience
and realize that you deserve it.
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