Monday, July 1, 2024

life without continual acts of self-revision would be boring

Happy July 1st to all of us in Canada. We celebrate the birth of our country and how it has changed to be a more caring place. As a country, we have and continue to reinvent ourselves as we welcome new arrivals that add to our country's tapestry and find that exciting. As you enter retirement, consider the exciting possibility of reinventing yourself. What would life be without continual acts of self-revision? Embracing change can be the key to a fulfilling and dynamic retirement.

Our self-perceptions and aspirations, the narratives we craft about who we are and who we aspire to be, often anchor us to a fixed idea of ourselves. This “tyranny of completion” can be limiting. We tend to see ourselves as finished products but we are ever-evolving drafts, surprised by life's unexpected plot twists. We often cling to familiar thoughts and feelings, finding comfort in certainty, even when it narrows our understanding of our desires.

Retirement offers a unique opportunity to break free from these confines. While we may not always know what we want, being open to new experiences can lead to profound personal growth. This uncertainty can be daunting, but it also has the potential to enrich our lives in unimaginable ways.

If we can embrace the process of self-discovery and remain open to change, we can step into a more expansive and authentic life. Let retirement be a time of exploration and reinvention, where each new chapter brings growth, joy, and fulfillment.

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