Make life meaningful this holiday season

The holidays are coming up fast, and this should be a joyous time, and it is for many, but for some, it is not. Life events make it hard to keep ahead of the isolation, loneliness and sorrow that visit some of us during the holiday season.

In times when the world feels weighed down by turmoil, and individuals find themselves questioning fairness, respect, and the very fabric of humanity, it’s natural for self-doubt and despair to take root. Yet, even in the darkest moments, there are forces within us that keep despair at bay and make life meaningful.

When the mind—the profound meeting place of body and spirit—feels overwhelmed, what sustains us? It is the recognition of something greater, something deeper and more enduring than fleeting thoughts or wavering beliefs. This is the inextinguishable power of affirmation within us: the quiet, unwavering force that urges us to persist, to hope, and to love.

The meaning of life is not handed to us; it is something we must create for ourselves. It’s a question that invites us to dig deep, to reflect on what truly resonates, and to shape a sense of purpose unique to our journey. For many, the answer lies in love—not just as a feeling, but as a way of being.

Love is at the core of what makes life meaningful. It is the bond that connects us to others, the bridge that helps us move beyond fear and self-doubt. To love deeply and authentically is to affirm the value of another and, in doing so, affirm our own. It is through love that we find clarity, courage, and purpose, even in uncertain times.

Love manifests in many ways:

• Love for others inspires compassion, generosity, and the desire to build connections.
• Love for oneself is vital for overcoming doubt and embracing our own worth.
• Love for the world drives us to care for our communities and the planet.

When we choose love as our guiding principle, we remind ourselves that we are part of something greater than our individual struggles. Love is a force that transcends barriers, heals wounds, and brings light to even the darkest places.

For those feeling lost or doubting themselves, love offers a path forward. Begin by nurturing small acts of love—toward yourself, toward others, and toward life itself. These acts, no matter how small, remind us of our inherent ability to create meaning, to connect, and to grow.

Ultimately, life’s meaning is not about grand answers or definitive truths but about the choices we make to bring light into our lives and the lives of others. It is found in the moments when we allow love to guide us—when we reach out, hold on, and give freely of ourselves.

In a world that often feels fractured, love has the power to mend, to uplift, and to affirm that even in the face of uncertainty, life is worth living, and we are worthy of living it well.

Coping with the challenges of life

 Every era, every culture, and every tradition carries its unique character—its strengths and weaknesses, its beauty and flaws. The age we live in is no different. We find ourselves grappling with challenges that seem to weigh heavily on our collective spirit, enduring certain struggles as inevitable and facing evils that demand change.

Yet, history teaches us that such moments of uncertainty are not new. They often emerge when a generation is caught between two worlds—two ways of seeing the world—leaving many of us feeling untethered, without a clear sense of identity or direction. Today, countless individuals feel this tension, struggling to reconcile the past with an unknown future. Confusion and conflict weigh on our hearts, yet this moment also presents an opportunity for transformation.

Amid this uncertainty, we possess a remarkable tool for rediscovery and renewal: the creative spirit. It is through our artists, musicians, dreamers, and philosophers that we can navigate the haze of our times. These visionaries have the unique ability to illuminate the human experience, cutting through confusion to reveal truths that inspire and uplift.

Artists nourish the goodness within us, expressing hope, resilience, and beauty in ways that words alone cannot. Their creations remind us of our shared humanity and renew our faith in a brighter future. While society reflects only a fragment of the human spirit, art expresses the boundless potential within us to dream, heal, and create.

In times like these, we must champion the dreamers and creators among us. Their light has the power to grow and dispel the darkness. Support them in their work—whether through encouragement, resources or simply acknowledging the value of their vision. By fostering creativity, we strengthen the foundation for a future that is not only brighter but more compassionate and inclusive.

Let us remember that every brushstroke, note of music, and inspired word carries the seeds of hope. Together, by uplifting the artists and dreamers in our midst, we can begin to paint a future filled with possibility and promise.

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 For many, of us, retirement can lead to feelings of loneliness, especially if our loved ones live far away or as happens to young families, they become preoccupied with their own schedules. Here are some ideas on how to overcome these feelings.

Scheduling visits with family or friends during the holiday season can create something to look forward to. Remember that you have to be flexible as many of our children have very hectic lives during the holiday season, and flexibility may allow you to find time to visit. For those of you who can joining a local walking group or fitness class is a good idea. It not only boosts mood but also introduces you to new people.

The holidays are a good time to consider joining a book club, art class, or hobby group. Engaging in a shared activity helps you foster connections, and regular social interaction can add more joy and purpose.

Don’t hesitate to initiate connections. Often, family and friends are happy to hear from you, but they may need a little reminder as they’re busy. Remember when you were younger and how hectic the holiday season was for you. Be patient, reasonable and flexible so you can reach out to make the holidays a little less stressful for your friends and loved ones. Prioritize your physical and emotional well-being by getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in relaxing activities. Create a new holiday tradition, such as hosting a potluck dinner or attending a community event.

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 Retirement is a time of new beginnings it also forces us to shift our daily routines and social connections, which are essential for mental and emotional well-being. The holidays are stressful, so keeping connections strong is important but it is particularly important around the holiday season. Nurturing connections can make a big difference in your sense of fulfillment and happiness during the stress of the holiday season.

The shift to retirement can affect us in various ways, especially when it comes to social life. For many of us, work provided daily interaction with people we called friends, when we retire those connections may fade. When we lose these connections there is a gap. Regular social interactions help protect us from depression, reduce our stress, and keep our mind sharp. A strong social network where we can engage with others, share stories, and create memories contributes to a richer, healthier life, bringing comfort, joy, and stability to you.

The holiday season offers the perfect opportunity to rekindle connections and build new ones. If possible, you could host a small get-together with family or friends to celebrate, whether it’s a dinner, a movie night, or a simple afternoon tea. If gathering in person isn’t feasible, plan a video call with your loved ones. You could even arrange virtual activities, like decorating cookies together or opening gifts on screen. This was a popular option during the lockdown caused by COVID, perhaps it still has a place when families cannot be together. My daughter and her family live in Australia, so we get to celebrate a Zoom Xmas with them on the 25^th their time, but it is the 24^th our time. So, the benefit is we get two days of Christmas.

My senior center has a Christmas lunch, as well as choir singing and many other festive activities before Christmas. We are not alone  as there are many community centers and churches that host seasonal gatherings, performances, and dinners. If you join in these events you will be welcome and it is a great way to meet new people and feel connected to your community.

In my local community Facebook group, someone new to the community asked about how to volunteer over the holidays. Participating in holiday charity events is meaningful way to connect with others and make a positive impact. Volunteering can add a new purpose to the holiday season and introduce you to others with similar interests.