Thursday, June 14, 2012

Stress and mental capacity

Have you ever thought that we are under enough stress? I have a friend who has the attitude that he gets stressed out about a lot of things, but if he if he has a choice, he would rather not choose to add things to his list—especially things he has no control over. While the fact is, he has that choice, and we all have this choice.
If something is bothering you – reduce the amount of mental capacity you give to “it”.

The things that worry, stress, aggravate or infuriate us can only do so if we choose to allow them. If something is bothering you – it’s because you’ve given that thing more of your mental capacity than it may warrant.
We are responsible for our own suffering and upset and our own joy and love.  It’s difficult to admit that we are doing something that is causing us to suffer. It is also difficult to accept that we can simply choose to not allow stressful things to preoccupy our thoughts. You may believe that you are being ‘responsible’ and ‘mature’ about things when you are stressing over them, but you are not mature. The mature thing to do is to make a better choice and get on with living a positive life.
So here are some things that we all have to face:
  • Gas prices will do what they do.
    • I can choose to drive or not drive.
    • If I choose to drive I will need gas.
  • All politicians live to stay or get into Power and tell me their (usually) self serving version of the truth to get me to vote for them
    • I can choose to believe or not believe the “truths” politicians tell me
    • If I choose to believe their “truth” or if I choose to not believe their “truth”, it doesn't matter because politicians will continue to fight for power and will continue to present their self serving version of the "truth" to me
Any interpretation beyond those facts is entirely up to me.

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Morning coffee

I Walked out on the front steps this morning just as the sun was coming up,  holding my coffee cup waiting for my cat to saunter up the porch stairs. As I waited I stopped and wondered at the beauty of the scene. The snow on Mount Baker reflected the suns rays done to the valley below. The hills still touched with shades of pink, purple and blue from the night sky were layered with white clouds drifting between the shades of blue. The Fraser River mist rose up to kiss the hills as the blue of the night awoke to the golden dawn. The magic of the sunrise leaves me breathless. I live in a wonderful corner of the world. 


Enjoy your day, I am going to enjoy mine as I will be enjoying the changeable spring/summer weather we get on the wet coast of BC.

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Just in time for summer

A great idea, long time coming, thanks to Doug for this (I wish I had thought of this. Maybe I could start a retired husband daycare--any takers?)


Monday, June 11, 2012

Jean Wilder still being held unlawfully--update


Jean Wilder still being held unlawfully, Public Guardian and Trustee applies to seize control of her assets
Received from SENIORSAT RISK

Jean Wilder of Invermere, B.C. is still being held unlawfully by the Interior Health Authority, with the full knowledge and apparent approval of the Public Guardian and Trustee of B.C.

No information has been provided to the family, despite repeated requests, about why she is still being held against her will more than three months after she was suddenly confined to Columbia House care facility and her family and friends were banned from visiting.

In our last report on Jean Wilder‘s family’s efforts to protect Jean and her rights, Marc Normand, Jean’s designated power of attorney, had just submitted the accounts for the two months he has been acting as her POA to the Public Guardian and Trustee’s office, as they had demanded.

In his submission to the PGT of the accounting statements, Marc Normand  asked the PGT for information about the unsubstantiated non-specific allegations made about him by the PGT in a “referral”, and requested information that would confirm the legal status of Jean Wilder, who the family views as being held unlawfully and without cause.

To this day, the PGT has apparently not provided one iota of evidence to Marc Normand that he has acted improperly in managing Jean Wilder’s assets. The PGT alleges that someone has accused him of something in a “referral”, but no one from the PGT has provided any substance to confirm, or information about, the “referral” allegations.

Public Guardian misleads Wilder family

The PGT had given Marc Normand to May 10, 2012, a discourteous and unreasonable deadline (one week) to submit the accounting, but he did manage to comply with that deadline.

Then, on May 17th, Marc Normand received a stunning letter in the mail. In the PGT’s response, Launa Monette, a Regional Consultant in the PGT’s Kelowna office, states:

“I have completed my assessment and have determined that our office will be taking steps to apply as Jean Wilder’s Committee of Estate in order to assist with the management of Jean Wilder’s financial and legal affairs. Thank you for the assistance you have provided. … “

With that, the PGT signaled that they will be seeking to declare Jean Yukiko Wilder incapable, and to seize control of her assets. And what is to be made of the threat to manage not just her money but also her “legal affairs“? This is no idle threat;  approval of a PGT application for committeeship is normally just a formality in the B.C. Supreme Court.

It appears, however, that the Public Guardian and Trustee of B.C. has attempted to mislead Mr. Normand and the Wilder family by claiming to have assessed the accounting statements they did not yet have.

Launa Monette’s letter was dated May 10, 2012, the same day the accounts were due. The PGT could not possibly have reviewed the accounting statements as Monette claims she did – because the PGT had not even received the records yet.

Marc Normand delivered his letter and accounts by email at the end of the day on Thursday, May 10th, just before the PGT office closed. He immediately received an autoreply email from Monette that said she was out of the office and would not be back until Monday, May 14th. A few minutes later, Mr. Normand telephoned Ms. Monette’s office and was told that Ms. Monette had already left for the day and would not be back until the following Monday.

The response from the PGT also suggests that the Public Guardian and Trustee’s office had already decided not to accept Marc Normand’s set of accounts, regardless of what they contained, and that the PGT had already decided to seize control of Jean Wilder – irrespective of whether her finances were being properly managed.

The language chosen by Launa Monette appears to be designed to further mislead the Wilder family. She states that the PGT will be applying to become Jean Wilder’s Committee of Estate in order to “assist with the management of Jean Wilder’s financial and legal affairs”.

Who, precisely, will they be assisting? A Committee, by definition, is the person in charge, the person who makes the decisions, not someone who “assists”.

Family sends PGT formal notice objecting to take-over of Jean Wilder’s estate

On May 23, 2012 Jean’s daughter Trina Wilder, husband Curtis Wilder and POA Marc Normand sent a letter to the Public Guardian and Trustee of B.C. formally    objecting to the PGT’s intention to apply for Committeeship of Jean Wilder’s estate.

In their letter the family pleads for information, and expresses the impact of bureaucratic “bullying”:

“The Public Guardian and Trustee and the Interior Health Authority have done quite enough already to destroy her quality of life and well-being, and to disrupt our interactions with Jean.

We oppose your actions. We will take whatever steps we can to stop these bullying and deceptive practices so that we can prevent further harm to Jean and our family.”

Over a week later, there had still been no response from Monette or anyone in the Public Guardian and Trustee’s office.
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Sunday, June 10, 2012

The attack on Human Rights in Canada continues

On June 6,  D day, the conservatives government in Ottawa, moved to destroy the right to be protected from hate speech and they are proud of their action. What next? Many bloggers have said, I among them, that Harper will destroy the social contract between the government and our citizens, by using back benchers to do his work.  There are calls from conservative back benchers to bring back capital punishment, the government has reopened the debate on abortion, with a move to outlaw it. Backbenchers are calling for Canada to leave the United Nations and now they are moving to dismantle the Human Rights Act, one section at a time. There is little if no outrage, and that fact is depressing


OTTAWA — The Conservative government voted late Wednesday to repeal controversial sections of the Canadian Human Rights Act banning hate speech over the telephone or Internet.


In a vote of 153 to 136, the majority Harper government supported a private member's bill from Alberta Conservative MP Brian Storseth that would scrap Section 13 of the human rights code, which deals with complaints regarding "the communication of hate messages by telephone or on the Internet."


Storseth argues the current human-rights code fails to protect freedom of speech, which is guaranteed under the Charter of Rights and Freedoms, and believes Canadians are better off if the government repeals sections 13 and 54 — the latter section dealing with associated penalties.


"At every stage, the Conservative caucus has voted for it," Storseth, a backbencher, said Wednesday in an interview before the vote on third and final reading in the House of Commons.


"I'm looking forward to continuing to have Conservative caucus support."


Senior cabinet ministers supported the bill and the results of the vote generated loud applause from Conservative MPs




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