If you could sit down with a pencil, paper, and list the top five goals most people would put for their senior citizen years, what do you suppose would go on that list? Financial security would probably rank pretty high. And time with family would get good marks. But just based on the thing that seems to be most on the minds of seniors, the thing that would probably rank the highest would be good health, avoiding injury and continued long life.
Now, if you
attend a seminar in good health for seniors, usually the things that get
covered are diet issues and exercise. But more and more, research into what
seniors are most successful and consistently live the longest and have the
lowest incidence of health problems are not the ones who statistically work the
hardest to observe strict diet and exercise guidelines. The senior citizens
that are the most successful at being the best are the ones who obsess the
least about being successful.
We have made much
of “the power of positive thinking” and some of it is probably a bunch of hype.
But this research on the effect of attitude on how well senior citizens do
mentally, emotionally and physically lends some credibility that a senior
outlook on life seems to have a great deal to do not only with their quality of
life but how frequently you get sick and on longevity.
Part of why this is
has to do with expectations. If you enter your senior years expecting you will
be ill more often, will experience periods of low energy and will decline
quickly over your senior years, that is probably what is going to happen to
you.
This is not just
because the thoughts themselves have any power like the positive thinking
people would have us believe. But if each day you wake up expecting poor health
and low stamina, you won’t be as active during the day. You won’t want to
socialize with others and you won’t have goals and ambitions. And these are the
kinds of things that keep people of any age going. By “giving up” to the onset
of old age, we signal our minds and to our bodies that there will be no effort
to stay fit and healthy. And because there is no effort in those directions,
poor health and low energy results.
Some call this the
“self-fulfilling prophecy” syndrome. Seniors that think they will do well, have
an active lifestyle and continue to enjoy good health are the ones that do just
as well as they think they will. But their counterparts seem to “think
themselves ill”.
There are a lot of
causes and effects looking at your life with confidence and ambition can have.
Seniors who are active, who get out and take on projects, spend time with
others and refuse to let old age get them down are the ones that stay happy and
healthy longer and have a better quality of life throughout their retirement
years.
Another paradox of
the importance of attitude on the quality of life of a senior has to do with
thinking of others more than yourself. A senior who volunteers are active in
helping others and who are always celebrating the lives of family and friends
also seem to be happier and more successful members of the community. To state
this simply, those who worry about others the most benefit the most personally.
But those who worry about themselves the most have the most to worry about.
The best way to turn around the effects of poor attitude and get a change of outlook is to seek better companionship. The old saying “misery loves company” is quite accurate. So getting a better mental attitude, be with people who have friendly attitudes. A positive and creative outlook on life is contagious. And it’s worth the effort to change how you view your retirement life because to think negatively is only going to lead to problems. But if your attitude says you will get the best from life, you experience that and become the best senior you can become