Job
transitions can be stressful—whether they’re due to layoff, a new job or
working extra hours because others workers were laid off. If you’re facing one,
consider the following.
1. Take an
honest look at yourself. What
are your strengths, weaknesses, skills? How did those influence—positively or
negatively—your transition?
2. Step up
your self-care. Major
changes are physically and emotionally taxing. You need self-care now more than
ever.
3. Engage
your curiosity. What went
wrong, or right? What could you have done better? What worked really well?
4. Focus on
what you want, and less on
what you don’t want. Keep your eye on the prize.
5. Find
support. Since your
transition affects your family as well, it may be better to seek the outside
support of friends or professionals.
6. Work on
your thoughts. Calm your
fears and reinforce your sense of hope and happiness.
7. Reassure (or avoid) those who are threatened by, or
jealous of, the change.
8. Create
your own rite of passage.
Ceremony and ritual help with all transitions.
9. Let go of
how things were “supposed to be” and
accept “how things are.” Find appreciation for what is.
10. Keep
things in perspective. Or
try on a new perspective. Don’t get stuck. Remember, the only constant is
change.