Thursday, February 2, 2012

Take charge of your life.

In order to live your second adulthood (or childhood in my case:-) with freedom purpose and passion, stop and take a look at yourself as well as your physical, emotional, and spiritual environment.



This checklist may help serve as a guide to get you started. It is not exhaustive but is meant to be a beginning point.

Do you have a will? Do you have detailed instructions about what arrangements you want when you die?

Do you have a living will and a designated person as medical power of attorney?

Are your important documents such as your driver’s license, passport, will, up to date? Do you have copies of each of these stored in a safe place?

Do you have a secure place to store important documents?
Does at least one other person know where this is and have access to them?

How is your health? When was your last physical and eye examination? What do you need to start doing to either improve your health or maintain good health?

Is your living space cluttered? Ask yourself: is this item really important to me? Do I use it or enjoy it regularly?
Clear out, clean out and make space for the life you are living now.

Is your vehicle in good running order? Do you have emergency road side service, a working spare tire, thermal blanket, bottled water, jumper cables, snow chains, first aide kit?

Do you have adequate health, home, and life insurance?
If you’ve put off taking care of any important aspect of your life—now is the time to take action! Make a plan and get started—one step at a time. Don’t leave the important things to chance. Unfortunately, we’ve all heard stories of people who waited too long to see their doctor, to make an amend, or record their family history.

What are you putting off accomplishing that you know is important and would increase your peace of mind and overall well-being?

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Commit to being happy

John worked in a large corporation for thirty years and took early retirement at age 54. For a few years he enjoyed traveling. Then John decided to fulfill a long held dream of turning his hobby of furniture crafting into a business. He expanded his home workshop and started his second career. However, his business was successful but John was not  happy. He liked creating and his sense of accomplishment but the isolation was depressing.

What John wanted was to learn how to love his situation. He was grateful for the opportunity to have his own successful business and felt somewhat guilty for not being happy. John was missing the balance that is important to life. When he was younger he threw himself into his work, and he was successful, but he was not happy. When he retired, John found he loved creating and building, and created a successful business doing just that. Yet he was not happy.

Commit to being happy, but to do that self reflection is needed, as well as self understanding. John did not know himself as well as he thought. John needed to share his passion. Once John realized this he was able to take the time to rekindle his love for his partner and to bring that person into the emotional side of his life. Understanding your own needs, then reaching out to those you love is one of the first steps to a commitment to being happy.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Is Retirement in Canada ‘endangered’

Stephen Harper seems to think that it should be, or at least the government’s role in funding retirement should be reduced or eliminated and is in question.
The government has told the Canadian people that we are in good shape as a country, yet tells the world that we need to make adjustments to our pension program to better weather the current and future economic storms.

The current recession has taken a toll on the financial health of many and retirement savings, which were not adequate for many prior to this current recession, have many of us considering our retirement options. Options we have to start thinking about include continuing to work, working part-time, selling our homes, cutting expenses on food, shelter or health related expenses.  
There are several things that the government needs to consider fixing, Old Age Pensionis one of these items so people will begin to feel confident in the viability of the system, another is to set up a system that encourages younger Canadians to pay more into RRSPs and to start to give more effective advice to retirees that helps them use their financial assets most effectively when they retire.
In the United States, improvements in health of older people and increases in average life expectancy were given as primary reasons for increasing the retirement age.
“It’s time to once again raise the full retirement age, according to Bob Reynolds, the president and CEO of Putnam Investments. This time, Reynolds suggests, we might peg the full retirement age to life expectancy so as to adjust for improvements in the health of older people and increases in average life expectancy.
In 1940, for instance, the average 65-year-old male in the U.S. had a life expectancy of 77.7. In 1990, it was 80.3. And by 2006, it was 81.6. “You have to adjust for that,” Reynolds said. “It’s just too costly.”   If you use the 1940 as the benchmark ratio, the full retirement age could be raised, by to 71 according to Robert Powell of the Wall Street Journal
Reynolds goes on to suggest that there’s a correlation between financial literacy and confidence. To solve the confidence problem, we must solve the literacy problem. According to Reynolds, it’s time to provide the education and tools required to help people understand how much to save and how to invest, how much they will need to accumulate for retirement, and how to make their money last a lifetime once in retirement. Knowledge will lead to action, and action will lead to confidence.
I tend to agree that increasing ones understanding of financial literacy is important to help people prepare for retirement. Anyone looking ahead to retirement may benefit from a written financial plan that will help them define their retirement goals and objectives, and guide them in creating a realistic plan to create a more confident financial future
As Mr. Harper has publically stated that Pension reform read reduction in the dollar amount paid to pensioners or increasing the age at which one qualifies, or both) is one of his governments agenda items he will find that it may have been prudent of him to give us  an idea that Pension reform was on his agenda  prior to the last election. As more and more baby boomers retire, the discussion on retirement, on retirement income, will become a national topic, and the way Mr. Harper has introduced this topic, I think will spark the interest of retirement to all age groups.
Let’s hope that’s the case because the problem is real and we need to have a discussion about the issues, we don’t need to be blindsided by a government that apparently now believes it has a mandate to move Canada to a more right wing social conservative agenda. The social conservative agenda I believe, wants sto put more responsibility on the individual for their own safety net, while the  maintaining government has no responsibility for any safety net for its citizens.

Monday, January 30, 2012

Honour Yourself


What I want you to do every morning and every night is to take a few minutes – alone – and honor yourself.
The way you do this is simple. You just say to yourself, “I am going to honor myself for . . . “ Instead of stopping at one thing, think of as many things as you can. And feel the honor when you acknowledge yourself!
These are examples of things you can honor yourself for:
“I am going to honor myself for getting up early today, not staying up late and watching TV when I needed my rest, making a healthy choice for lunch, not yelling at someone, washing the dishes, exercising, making a phone call, doing an action that I was afraid to do, sending love to someone . . . “

It doesn’t matter how small it is, what matters is that you feel honored, acknowledged and special.

Why wait for someone else to do it when you can do it yourself (and probably do it better than anyone else)?
Getting into the habit of doing this will boost your self confidence tremendously, and it will give you a greater sense of peace and joy.