The Old Refrain

 I came across this old Irish Song on "As Time Goes By and thought it had interesting lyrics, so I thought I would share it. On the link, you can listen to the melody and sing along with Fritz as he plays on his violin.Thoughts about grower older are the theme. 

Here is another perspective on ageing by Lola, in which she says, "One of the best books on aging I've read is Helen M. Luke's "Old Age" in which she uses literature (King Lear, the Odyssey, etc) to illustrate the point that one cannot continue to do and be the same person one was in midlife. She says old age is about something other than being and doing big things. It is about assimilation and reflection and reconciliation, it is a more internal process."

Author: Fritz Kreisler        

I often think of home Dee-ol-ee-ay 
When I am all alone and far away;
I sing an old refrain, dee-ol-ee-ay 
For it recalls to me a bygone day
It takes me back again to meadows fair 
Where sunlight's golden rays beam everywhere

My childhood joys again come back to me 
My mother's face in fancy too I see 
It was my mother taught me how to sing 
And to that memory my heart will cling 
I'm never sad and alone while on my way 
As long as I can sing Dee-ol-ee-ay

Though years have passed and gone, dee-ol-ee-ay 
And though my heart is young my head is grey. 
Yet still the echoes ring, dee-ol-ee-ay 
And dear old memories forever stay. 
This song will bring me visions full of light 
And sweetest dreams throughout the darkest night

Of all that life can give, that song is best
I'll take it with me when I go to rest 
And when at last my journey here is o'er 
'Twill ring more joyfully than e'er before 
For up to heavens I will take my lay 
The angels, too, will sing dee-ol-ee-ay

3000 and counting

This is my 3000 post. I started with a post about the news I was going to be a grandfather.almost 8 years ago. This was about a month after my grandson was born and my wife was in Australia and I was going to be heading down in about two weeks to see my new grandchild. 

Two things I said in that post still apply.
The first is 'I am not sure if being a grandfather makes me a senior or do I still qualify for being a boomer. I am not yet ready to call myself a senior although I suspect that younger people would think I qualify." I definitely qualify for senior status, but still, refuse to be called a senior and think of my self as a Boomer, or as my friend Ernie called me a "Sonic Boomer".

The second, in my first post, I also talked about my going across the border and being stopped because of a computer glitch and I wrote, "I also enjoyed the idea that I was suspected of setting the world on fire again even if the reason was a computer glitch." 
Boomers are still setting the world on fire, although my peers such as Donald Trump continue to give my generation a bad name. Overall we have done a lot of good over the last 70 plus years, but we could have done better. I am happy that many of my peers are still involved in supporting others through volunteering, demonstrations and being involved in our community. 

I hope to continue writing for another at least 10 years and I thank all of you who read my words and give me feedback. It makes life exciting and interesting

Keep your sense of humour

When I had my Knee Surgery, I fell twice in the hospital as a result of reactions to the drugs they were giving me for pain. One of my friends, who knew that I had fallen was telling us that his wife had her hip surgery and she fell at home when she was recovering. She had a urinary tract infection and was in a hurry to go to the washroom. She was using a walker, which are hard to use if a person is not used to them. On the way to the washroom, she stumbled and fell backward. 

My friend called 911 and she was taken to White Rock Hospital for a check-up. While they were waiting in the recovery room, my friend could here another person, yelling "I WANT TO GO HOME, GET ME OUT OF THIS PLACE. FOR F%%K SAKE, LET ME GO HOME."

The Yelling went on for a few minutes, then stopped. My friend and his wife looked at each other relieved that the "tantrum" was over. A few more minutes went by and the shouting continued in the same manner. The shouting continued for about 10 minutes, with small breaks between each session of yelling.

A Nurse finally came to see my friends wife, and my friend asked the Nurse, "Is that a patient yelling or is it one of the Emergency Room Doctors?"

The Nurse started to laugh and said, "Thank you, we needed that" (It was a patient yelling not the doctor)

My friend's wife had no injuries as a result of her fall, but she will be more careful in the future as she recovers from her hip surgery replacement.

All you can do is dance

We all work hard to achieve our goals, we sacrifice, we worry, we wonder if we will ever achieve our dreams. Those of us who are visual, visualize and make our dreams come to life, through images and video. Others of us, who are auditory, create a sound stage on which we listen to the sounds of our success and we glow in the strength of that sound. Those of us who are Kinesthetic create the feeling of success in our interactions with others. No matter how we see, feel or hear our success, those who are jealous of our hard work and stubborn focus on our goals will take notice once we achieve our dreams.  

You know what they're going to do, don't you? And you do know what they're going to say?

Yeah, once you have consistently spend some time visualizing, creating our feelings or listening to the sounds of success, every day, doing the "all you can with what you've got" dance, and pushing yourself to live the life of your dreams to any degree that you now can, so that the floodgates fly open and you have your dream home, your dream work, and your dream friends.

They're gonna give you that long, cold glance out of the corner of their eyes and say in a long, drawn-out voice, just loud enough for you to hear, "Must... be... nice..."

Just warning you not to let those naysayers ruin your day. In fact, invite them to celebrate with you.