Tuesday, April 14, 2015

That's it!

A general noticed one of his soldiers behaving oddly. The soldier would pick up any piece of paper he found, frown and say: "That's not it" and put it down again. 

This went on for some time, until the general arranged to have the soldier psychologically tested. 

The psychologist concluded that the soldier was deranged, and wrote out his discharge from the army. The soldier picked it up, smiled and said: "That's it."

Monday, April 13, 2015

Retiring is not easy.

Moving into retirement is not easy, it has taken me years to achieve the goal of being what I consider fully retired. By that I mean I am satisfied that what I do is no longer work, I write two blogs, run my online stores, travel (at least once a year we take a long trip) golf (badly)  read and enjoy the company of my friends. 

I also teach, mentor and help others, all of these things I did when I was working, but I do them at my pace and on my time.  I like many early boomers consider myself a leader. This is important many early boomers do not think they are leaders because I who they are, we are leaders l because of when we were born. There are millions of Boomers who will be reaching retirement in the next 10 to 15 years and so those of us who, by fate of birth are here first must take a leadership role in shaping how society views retirement. Here are my thoughts on leadership.

Good leaders must lead by example. Through their actions, which are aligned with what they say, they become a person others want to follow. When leaders say one thing but do another, they erode trust, a critical element of productive leadership. Here are some ways to lead by example.

1. Take responsibility. Blame costs you your credibility, keeps team members on the defensive and ultimately sabotages real growth. As we face retirement, accept responsibility for your success or failure at having enough to retire.

2. Be truthful. Inaccurate representation affects everyone. Show that honesty really IS the best policy. Over the past few years in this blog I have talked about how difficult it was for me to accept the concept of retirement, and I have documented my struggles as I learned to accept the onset of this new phase in my life.

3. Be courageous. Walk through fire (a crisis) first. Take calculated risks that demonstrate commitment to a larger purpose.

4. Acknowledge failure. It makes it OK for your team to do the same and defines failure as part of the process of becoming extraordinary.

5. Be persistent. Try, try again. Go over, under or around any hurdles to show that obstacles don’t define your company or team.

6. Create solutions. Don’t dwell on problems; instead be the first to offer solutions and then ask your team for more.

7. Listen. Ask questions. Seek to understand. You’ll receive valuable insights and set a tone that encourages healthy dialogue.

8. Delegate liberally. Encourage an atmosphere in which people can focus on their core strengths.

9. Take care of yourself. Exercise, don’t overwork, take a break. A balanced team, mentally and physically, is a successful team. Model it, encourage it, support it! 

10. Roll up your sleeves. Like Alexander the Great leading his men into battle, you’ll inspire greatness in your company. 

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Women and retirement basic

Why Women Are Falling Short: Some Basics
To spend their retirement years in comfort and security, women must start planning early. The first step in this process is understanding why retirement security is so elusive by looking at some of the most basic and troublesome facts about women’s earnings, work status, life expectancy, marital status, and retirement income:

Earnings
• Two-thirds of working women earn less than $30,000 a year.
• Nearly half of all women work in low-paying jobs without retirement plans or 401(k)s.
• Women earn on average 77 cents for every dollar earned by men.
Work Status
• Women are more likely than men to work part-time. Part-time employment is associated with lower wages, fewer opportunities for promotion, a lower likelihood of pension coverage and eventually smaller benefits.
• Over a lifetime, women will spend 27 years in the workforce, compared to almost 40 years for men.

Life Expectancy
• Today, an average woman’s life expectancy at birth is 80.1 years, compared to 74.8 years for men. If a woman lives to age 65, she can expect to live until the age of 84 or 85―about four more years than a man.

Marital Status
• Between the ages of 75 and 84, only 34 percent of women are married with a spouse present. For women age 85 and older, only 13 percent are married with a spouse present.
• With the death of a spouse, a woman often experiences a steep drop in income—from her spouse’s pension and even from Social Security.

Retirement Income
• The median income in 2004 for retired women was $12,080 compared to men’s income of $21,102.
• The poverty rate in 2004 for single white women age 65 and older was over 20 percent; that rate was double for single African American and Hispanic women.
• Social Security continues to be the only source of income for one in four unmarried women.

The Three Legs of the Stool
Many older women rely on Social Security as their primary or only source of retirement income—it keeps almost 40 percent from falling into poverty. However, Social Security replaces only 40 percent of an average worker’s wages. That 40 percent is not enough alone, and the fact that they are without other sources of income such as pensions or savings is one of the major reasons why so many older women live at poverty’s door.

Private pensions and retirement savings plans such as 401(k) or 403(b) plans are the second leg of the retirement stool. They are a valuable part of a retirement income package, but they are not always available to women. Less than one-third of retired older women today receive pension income. And the situation is not improving. Less than half of working women have access to a private pension or retirement plan at their jobs. Additionally, women often leave jobs before vesting in a pension benefit, and because the dollar amounts they receive are smaller, they tend to spend all or part of any lump sum distribution they receive from 401(k)-type plans.


The third leg of the retirement security stool is individual savings. Because of the changing nature of employer-provided pensions and savings plans, women must save on their own and save more than men—not only because they live longer, but also because they are more likely to have higher expenses for health care, long-term care and prescription drugs. Unfortunately, women’s lower average earnings and more time out of the workforce for care giving make it difficult for them to save the amounts needed for retirement.

The following checklist is drawn from the work of the Committee of Post-Retirement Needs and Risks of the Society of Actuaries and the content and recommendations in the report, “Public Misperceptions about Retirement Security,” published in 2005 by LIMRA International, Inc., the Society of Actuaries, and Mathew Greenwald & Associates, Inc. The Committee has identified the areas in which the public does not understand the realities of retirement planning and that serve as barriers to individuals creating a good solution in this era of individual responsibility.


Saturday, April 11, 2015

Top 10 Ways to Cope with Job Transition

Job transitions can be stressful—whether they’re due to layoff, a new job or working extra hours because others workers were laid off. If you’re facing one, consider the following.

1. Take an honest look at yourself. What are your strengths, weaknesses, skills? How did those influence—positively or negatively—your transition?

2. Step up your self-care. Major changes are physically and emotionally taxing. You need self-care now more than ever.

3. Engage your curiosity. What went wrong, or right? What could you have done better? What worked really well?

4. Focus on what you want, and less on what you don’t want. Keep your eye on the prize.

5. Find support. Since your transition affects your family as well, it may be better to seek the outside support of friends or professionals.

6. Work on your thoughts. Calm your fears and reinforce your sense of hope and happiness.

7. Reassure (or avoid) those who are threatened by, or jealous of, the change.

8. Create your own rite of passage. Ceremony and ritual help with all transitions.

9. Let go of how things were “supposed to be” and accept “how things are.” Find appreciation for what is.


10. Keep things in perspective. Or try on a new perspective. Don’t get stuck. Remember, the only constant is change.

Excerpts from the Aegon Retirement Readiness Survey 2014


This is an interesting survey and shows that individuals, companies and countries need to rethink how they approach retirement planning.