Monday, August 13, 2012

Hospital stay

After a lifetime of spending very little time in hospitals as a patient,  I had the opportunity a week or so ago to spend four days in our local hospital, first two days in the emergency room and then two days on a floor in a private room. (I was not there because I wanted the private room, but I was there because the doctors thought I was contagious). 

I learned that self diagnoses is not  terribly smart idea and now I know to check with the Doctor sooner than later when I am sick. I thought I had the flu and for four days treated myself by staying in bed, and suffering with a fever, vomiting, chest pains and a headache. By Friday I was in such bad shape that my wife called the emergency number and off I went to the hospital. 

The firemen and the ambulance crew were at my home within minutes and after a few tests and questions, I was moved to the hospital.  The staff at the hospital that worked on me were wonderful, caring people. They responded to my questions, my needs and they were very thorough. I think I had more tests done in the four days I was in the hospital then I have had in my life.  After three days of testing, the doctor took me off the intravenous antibodies and put me on to some pills, and I started to feel better and by the fourth day I was ready to leave and the doctor agreed.

The front line staff were, in my humble observations, overworked. A few things I need to comment on, the cleaning staff in the emergency ward were working very hard, but they appeared to be rushed and I noticed that they missed several areas around my bed when they were cleaning.  When I was in my room, the cleaner came in once and did a very quick clean, but again missed several areas. I am not sure if she was rushed or whether she did not want to be in a room with a contagious patient.  

The food once I was allowed to eat, was surprisingly not bad, however the food trays were left in the room and not picked up, once they determined I was  not contagious, I took the trays out of the room and told the staff they should be picked up; I noticed that the food trays sat in the area where I left them for about 4 to 6 hours after I had informed the staff. 

I was taken up to the room by an LPN (Licensed Practical Nurse) who told me that she was working as a porter, because they hospital was short staffed, I also talked to a Registered Nurse who had come in off holidays to work and she told me about working a 20 hour shift because no one was available. This speaks to poor management of the hospital, and my sister-in-law, who is also a Registered Nurse also speaks to me of the lack of mangement skills in running the hospital where she works.

We tend to take our health care for granted, and think it will be there when we need it, but the Federal and Provincial governments are slowly defunding the public health care system and  my fear is that when we need care, it will not be available unless one has the money to pay for it.

I was struck in my two days in emergency by the fact that many of the people in the emergency  were my age or older, many had fallen, or had symptoms of heart attacks r strokes. I was also struck my the level of support that many of these people had, adult children spending hours waiting with their parents. When people were in life threatening situations  what was important was the friends and relationships.

Back to the food, when the last Doctor saw me on Monday afternoon, he told me I could go home and I then commented that I had found the food not too bad. The Dr. looked at me and became very serious, and then said, "I have to reconsider about you going home, your last comment tells me that you are a very, very, very sick man and we have to hold you for more tests." I recovered enough to say, "I didn't finish, the food was not as bad as I thought it would be" The Dr. laughed and said, "Ok, you can go home". We both laughed. 

A sense of humour is important in all situations. My thanks to the staff, the Doctors and Nurses and EagleRidge hospital for their help, support and caring while I was under their care. 

I am still undergoing tests and hope to find out why I was out for the 9 days, but now I am back to normal, I know that we have to continue to fight for our right to good medical care in Canada.

Sunday, August 12, 2012

Thanks to the Olympic Athletes

Over the last 15 days I have watched the Olympics in London with interest with high hopes for the Canadian athletes. The young men and women who competed for Canada should be very proud of their achievements. Many outdid themselves and although our medal count was not as high as we as a country had hoped, our athletes did themselves and our Country proud.  

In addition to the Canadian athletes, my thanks go out to all of the young men and women from every country who competed. These athletes should be proud of themselves and their countries should be proud of them. To compete at the highest level is an honour that each athlete will remember for the rest of their lives. The athletes have honoured themselves and their countries with their positive attitude and their dedication to the spirit of the games.

The coaches, managers, trainers, medical and equipment personnel that helped each team also should be thanked for their dedication to the team.

Finally, to the friends and the families of the athletes who have been there when no one else was and who were the difference makers, encouraging the athletes when they needed the support, thank you.


Saturday, August 11, 2012

Musing on a Summer day

What if today was your day? The most amazing day of your life,  so far? A day that would change everything for the better? What's already good would become great. What's already great would become amazing. And what's already amazing would become the stuff of legends.


And all you had to do to take advantage of the good and wonderful things about to happen for you, was treat folks with a true and eager kindness, think mostly of those things that please you, and go out in the world, just a bit, where you could meet, and mingle, and fall in love?
Musings on a summer day, but everyday can and should  the best day because as a friend of mine said, any day alive is far better than the alternative. Enjoy your day

Friday, August 10, 2012

Let the Band play on.


A friend of mine died suddenly the other day with his family while on holiday in Texas. Bob and I first worked together back in the 70’s when he started teaching Band and Choir at the Inner City school that we both worked at when he started teaching. 

 Bob and I had gone to high school together, (he was three years behind me, but I knew him through my brothers). Bob was full of life and love for music; it was in his soul. Bob build up the band program at the school, working long hours, taking kids on band trips that became legendary (if not among the students, among the people who travelled with him). 

Bob left that school a few years after I did leaving behind a legacy that lives on today for his students as evidenced by these facebook comment from some of his students from his time with me at Whalley:

RIP Mr. Bob LaBonte, you will be missed! I remember the late 70's and the  rough kids we were in Whalley, and how much even then we respected and  loved you. You were a special kind of teacher and person!

So sad to hear...he was my favourite teacher is all of West Whalley. He alway seemed to respect and understand us. I will always remember our band trips. RIP Mr. LaBonte.

Bob moved on to other schools, built wonderful band, and choir programs, and he was always looking for a challenge. When he retired a couple of years ago,  like me he became bored wit retirement and was quickly re-hired by the district and ended up teaching on a temporary contract at Frank Hurt (an Inner city school in Central Surrey). During his first year at Frank Hurt,(two years ago),  he started to build the Band program back up, by his second year it was in full swing, and Bob was hired on a continuing contract to continue his work at the school

His second year was this last school year and I was lucky enough to work with him again. Bob rarely took lunch as he would rather take the time to work with students who wanted extra practice time. When he did take lunch, he and I would talk about the Band program, old times, old friends, his family and how he was looking forward to next year. 

He was very excited that he had expanded the program and he had a lot of grade 8’s coming into the program. We talked about his upcoming trip where he was going to go to Texas, then New Orleans and other areas where he could relax and enjoy the music. We heard today that he had died in Texas, in his sleep. 

His death is such a loss to his family, his friends and to all of the people that he touched. Music was in his soul and my sympathy goes to his wife and children. Bob LaBonte, rest in peace, you will be missed!

Thursday, August 9, 2012

A Canadians view of Australians

This post is about what is like to be an Australian from a proud Canadian grandfather of a beautiful Australian grandson, I hope when he is older he gets a kick out of it.


 You know you're Australian if....

  • You know the meaning of 'girt'
  • You believe that stubbies can either be worn or drunk
  • You think it is normal to have a Prime Minister called Kevin
  • You waddle when you walk due to the 53 expired petrol discount  vouchers stuffed in your wallet or purse
  • You've made a bong out of your garden hose rather than use it for something illegal such as watering the garden
  • When you hear that an American 'roots for his team' you wonder how often and with whom
  • You understand that the phrase 'a group of women wearing black thongs' refers to footwear and may be less alluring than it sounds
  • You pronounce Melbourne as 'Mel-bin'
  • You pronounce Penrith as 'Pen-riff'
  • You believe the 'L' in the word ' Australia ' is optional
  • You can translate: 'Dazza and Shazza played Acca Dacca on the way to Maccas'
  • You believe it makes perfect sense for a nation to decorate its highways with large fibreglass bananas, prawns and sheep
  • You call your best friend 'a total bastard' but someone you really, truly despise is just 'a bit of a bastard'
  • You think 'Woolloomooloo' is a perfectly reasonable name for a place
  • You believe is makes sense for a country to have a $1 coin that's twice as big as its $2 coin
  • You understand that 'Wagga Wagga' can be abbreviated to 'Wagga' but 'Woy Woy' can't be called 'Woy'
  • You believe that cooked-down axlegrease makes a good breakfast spread
  • You believe all famous Kiwis are actually Australian, until they stuff up, at which point they again become Kiwis
  • You know, whatever the tourist books say, that no one says 'cobber'
  • You know that certain words must, by law, be shouted out during any rendition of the Angels' song 'Am I Ever Gonna See Your Face Again'
  • You believe, as an article of faith, that the confectionary known as the Wagon Wheel has become smaller with every passing year
  • You still don't get why the 'Labor' in 'Australian Labor Party' is not spelt with a 'u'
  • You wear ugh boots outside the house
  • You believe that the more you shorten someone's name the more you like them
  • Whatever your linguistic skills, you find yourself able to order takeaway fluently in every Asian language
  • You understand that 'excuse me' can sound rude, while 'scuse me' is alway polite
  • You know what it's like to swallow a fly, on occasions via your nose
  • You understand that 'you' has a plural and that it's 'youse'
  • You know it's not summer until the steering wheel is too hot to handle
  • You biggest family argument over the summer concerned the rules of beach cricket
  • You shake your head in horror when companies try to market what they call 'Anzac cookies'
  • You still think of Kylie as 'that girl off Neighbours'
  • When returning home from overseas, you expect to be brutally strip-searched by Customs - just in case you're trying to sneak in fruit
  • You believe the phrase 'smart casual' refers to a pair of black tracky-daks, suitably laundered
  • You understand that all train timetables are works of fiction
  • When working at a bar, you understand male customers will feel the need to offer an excuse whenever they order low-alcohol beer
  • You get choked up with emotion by the first verse of the national anthem and then have trouble remembering the second
  • You find yourself ignorant of nearly all the facts deemed essential in the government's new test for migrants.
  • You will immediately forward this list to other Australians, here and  overseas, realising that only they will understand!!