Returning gifts

There's nothing more difficult than returning a Christmas gift. The thought of doing this brings forth a complex mix of emotions. This simple act of returning a gift carries a deep message about human connections, expectations, and the intricate dance of emotions that unfold during the season of giving.

The holiday season is a time of warmth and togetherness, marked by the exchange of gifts as a tangible expression of love, appreciation, and thoughtfulness. These gifts are more than just material items; they symbolize the care and attention we invest in our relationships. The act of giving becomes a dance of anticipation, where we carefully select presents that we hope will bring joy and delight.

In the midst of this joyous exchange, there lies a hidden undercurrent of expectation. As we meticulously wrap each gift, we wonder about the recipient's reaction upon opening it. Will their eyes light up with surprise and happiness? Will the gift reflect the depth of our understanding of their desires and needs? These expectations stem from a place of genuine affection but can also lead to a certain vulnerability. We expose a part of ourselves through the gifts we give, revealing our perceptions of the recipient's preferences and desires.

However, the reality is that our perception of what would be the "perfect gift" doesn't always align with the recipient's preferences. This is where the complexity arises. The act of returning a gift, while sometimes necessary due to practical reasons, can evoke a mix of emotions. The giver may feel a twinge of disappointment, doubting whether their choice truly reflected their understanding of the recipient. They might experience a fleeting sense of rejection, questioning if the gift was inadequate in some way.

Yet, in this emotional tangle, lies a paradox. The very act of giving, with all its complexities and nuances, is a testament to the authenticity of the connection shared between individuals. It demonstrates a willingness to put in the effort, to take a risk in selecting something meaningful, and to hope for a positive outcome. Returning a gift doesn't diminish this effort; rather, it highlights the honest recognition that preferences are diverse and that the recipient's happiness is paramount.

So, while the process of returning a Christmas gift can evoke a range of emotions, it also underscores the essence of gift-giving itself. It's a reminder that the act is not solely about the physical item exchanged, but about the connection it represents, and the feelings invested in nurturing relationships. This emotional complexity enriches the holiday experience, making it a tapestry of joy, vulnerability, and the understanding that genuine love and connection transcend material possessions.

Cooking at Christmas time

Christmas memories are not quite gone, and I would like to share memories of how my wife cooks and bakes for holidays. I'm not skilled at cooking, but I enjoy helping my wife prepare for special occasions like Christmas, which is one of my favourite times of the year. One memory that stands out is helping my wife with the cooking and baking during a past Christmas.

During the Christmas season, the process of making food feels particularly special. The aroma of freshly baked cookies fills the air and adds a touch of magic to our home. Christmas is also about spending time with loved ones. We create cherished memories together, especially with our children.

Can you recall being with your family during holiday gatherings? Picture everyone engaged in conversation while enjoying delicious cookies and cake. Whenever I think about Christmas, I immediately think of people coming together. It's a time of immense happiness. For families who celebrate Christmas, it holds a special significance as the most important celebration of the year. My family's memories of Christmas are tied to simple activities like baking cookies.

The holiday season might be the only time when you have the opportunity to spend hours wrapping gifts or making homemade treats. The holidays also signify that your family and friends are all in one place, enjoying each other's company and sharing stories while watching Christmas shows and sipping on hot cocoa.

Merry Chistmas

 Thank you for allowing me to share some Christmas memories with you over the past few weeks. I enjoyed strolling down memory lane and I hope you found it interesting and I hope you were able to bring up some of your favourite memories as well.

From my family to yours we wish you and yours a very 

Merry Christmas!!! 

May you have all the best the seasons can offer.

May you have a day full of love, laughter friends and family

Christmas Candy

 I love Christmas candy; it runs through my veins. Back in the days of my youth, when the holiday season would roll around, our household wasn't awash with presents, but there was always one constant: the stocking, carefully hung by the chimney in hopes of creating some Yuletide magic. Nestled snugly in that stocking was a treasure trove of delights – from the ever-familiar Japanese orange at the toe to the snug Xmas socks and cozy undergarments, and of course, the handful of cherished toys. However, what truly captured my heart, nestled between those gifts, was the tantalizing Christmas candy that never failed to make my taste buds dance with joy.

Remembering those times, we've often shared stories about the importance of preserving our Christmas traditions, and how they act as a time capsule of our childhood. These memories have a special place in my heart, particularly those revolving around the treats that were exclusive to the holiday season, finding their sweet spot in the stockings we'd hang out for Santa's arrival. One such cherished memory for me revolves around the delightful exchange of classic Christmas candies.

 The act of giving and receiving Christmas candy is like weaving a tapestry of magic, not only for the young ones but for the generations to come. The tradition of sharing these delights adds a layer of enchantment to the festive season, creating a heartwarming memory that's bound to last a lifetime.

Let me take you through some of my all-time favourite traditional candies that have made my Christmases memorable: There's the enchanting rock candy, reminiscent of gemstones that sparkle with each bite; the dainty baby ribbons and pillows that hold within them a world of sugary dreams; the playful straws, chips, and waffles that never fail to transport me back to the carefree days of my childhood; and the intricate pinwheels and Cut Rock that are as mesmerizing to look at as they are delightful to savour. The enchanting Divinity Candy and Gloria Mix, the refreshing Peppermint Sticks nestled in the heart of oranges, and the delicate yet vibrant Ribbon Candy and Marzipan Candy – they all paint a picture of time-honoured joy.

 And let's not forget the trio of Old-fashioned Fudge Trio, the irresistible allure of Butter Toffee, and the timeless elegance of Chocolate Mints. These candies aren't just sugary delights; they're portals to the past, to the moments of joy, laughter, and warmth that defined those magical Christmases of yore.

 When circumstances keep us apart, there's an undeniably heartwarming gesture in sending a gift pack that holds the promise of shared memories – a token of love and thoughtfulness. For the little ones, receiving a box of candies designed just for them can light up their faces with joy, making distance feel a little less daunting. After all, Christmas candy isn't just about the flavours; it's about the emotions and bonds they represent.

 Christmas candy has a unique way of bringing people together. It's a treat that's meant to be shared, which is precisely what makes it such a splendid gift. The act of giving someone a piece of this sweet nostalgia is like sharing a piece of your heart – a gesture that resonates with the true spirit of the holiday season.

The holiday is almost over

Christmas holidays are almost over. The most wonderful time of the year is soon to be over. We can start to relax, the time we are stressed out with endless to-do lists trying to create the perfect holiday experience for everyone will be gone in a day or so. But amidst all the chaos, it is important to remember that it's the little things that truly count. 

Sure, decorating the house and the tree was important.  Decorating, putting all the lights out, with the garlands, and the ornaments set the stage for what was to come. We spent hours untangling the lights and making sure every branch of the tree was perfectly adorned. But let's be honest, half the lights went out halfway through the season and the ornaments were knocked off by the cat within minutes and put back up, no worse for wear. And yet, we did it all because it brought us joy and added to the festive spirit.

And then there was the task of picking out the perfect present for everyone on our list. We spent hours scouring the stores, racking our brains for that one perfect gift. But, with all that effort, we ended up with something that they will not use or will end up returning it. Keep reminding yourself; it's the thought that counts.

Preparing the festive meal was another big undertaking. Hours were spent in the kitchen, slaving away trying to reconstruct Grandma's famous Christmas recipe. Yet, with all that stress we put together a delicious meal that brings everyone together.

So, amidst all the chaos and the mishaps that seem to occur every year, let's remember that it's the little things that count. It's the laughter and the joy that came from decorating the house and the tree, It's the excitement and anticipation of picking out a present for someone, even if it's not the perfect gift. It's the love and togetherness that come from sharing a meal, even if it's slightly burned or missing an ingredient. 

In the end, Christmas is not about perfection. It's about the little moments of happiness and connection that we create with our loved ones. So, this year we embraced the chaos, laughed at the mishaps, and remembered that it's the little things that truly count. 

This Christmas, we did not stress ourselves out trying to create the perfect holiday experience. Instead, let’s remember that we focused on the little things that brought us joy, they will be those moments to remember. Lets hope that we remember this for next year.

Sleding was/is so much fun

 The snow is falling, 

Snowflakes dance from the sky so high,

Cars inch along, catching the gleam in their eye.

The news is depressing, no one is moving.

Snow piles up, a winter wonderland's claim,

Adventure awaits, not two days the same.

Travel is discouraged, 

So, as travel dwindles, laughter takes hold,

Fun is encouraged,

Sledding time, a daring feat,

Children's laughter is pure and sweet.

Sledding down hills, pure joy on display,

Laughter rings out and cares melt away.

Enraptured by thrills, cheeks rosy and bright,

In this snowy world, hearts take their flight.

The children enraptured, excitement swirls, 

hearts racing, the world twirled

Let's all be beguiled!

Fun was on the rise, and everyone smiled.

It doesn't matter if you're 5 or 105; sledding is, besides skiing, the most fun that anyone of any age can have in the snow. A day on the local hill can keep your family entertained and laughing for hours. 

When I was a pre-teen the best part of winter was sledding. We would go to a neighbouring farm where there was a ravine that was challenging and steep.  I remember standing on the top of the hill, waiting for my turn with anticipation and remembering the thrill of flying down the ravine, trying to avoid the trees and shrubs that were not covered by snow. The ravine had a small creek running through it. The challenge when the snow first fell was to make it down the raving and stop the sled before it hit the water. When it had been cold for a long enough time the challenge was to see if you could make it across the creek without going in the water.

When my children were young, we took them sledding on the local hills. We made sure they wore helmets, and that the hills were not clear of trees and shrubs and the run was safe so they could not get into any trouble. 

The act of sledding is nostalgic and brings back the magic of the season. Snow forces everyone to slow down. It also makes it opportune to cancel plans and stay indoors to snuggle up next to loved ones. However, snow-covered yards and hills call out to be enjoyed. So, give in to the ways of winter and recall the days of your youth when you went sledding.

Christmas away from home? Have you done that?

In 1996, my wife, mother-in-law and I spent our first Christmas away from home and family. Our children were both living in Australia at the time, and we wanted a different type of Christmas.  We thought that spending Christmas in a warm holiday resort without extended family would be a unique, delightful, and tranquil experience. It was.

When we were in Mexico, we woke up Christmas morning to the sound of waves crashing against the shore and the sun streaming through our windows. The resort itself was decked out in vibrant and festive decorations, and colourful ornaments hanging from the eaves. The atmosphere was cheerful and inviting. We started the day by exchanging gifts as we did at home. The gifts were not as elaborate as they would have been at home, but they were wonderful. We then went for a leisurely stroll along the beach. Later, we stayed by the pool going up to the in-pool bar and enjoying some festive drinks. We had reserved a spot at the resort restaurant for Christmas dinner. 

By noon we had enough of the pool and lazing around so we went to the nearby markets to shop for unique souvenirs and experience the local culture. While the absence of extended family might initially seem like a void, spending Christmas at the resort allowed time for introspection and self-discovery. It was a rejuvenating experience. It was a chance to celebrate the season in an unconventional manner, forging memories that will stay with us for years.

A few years later, my wife and I joined our daughter and her family in Australia at Christmas. That was also a unique and delightful but not tranquil experience.  My daughter’s home is a central hub and friends drop in at any time without announcement. The days before Christmas were an attempt to decorate, and prepare the meal while people popped in for a talk, a drink, or a stay in the spa to cool down. 

It was also very hot, in the days leading up to Christmas we had gone shopping in a bigger town about 3 hours from my daughter’s place. The temperature where we went was in the high 40s Celsius,  and I made the mistake of doing too much in the sun. At one point I just about fainted but my daughter’s partner and my son took me to the nearest fast-food place, and I drank a lot of water. 

On Christmas Day the temperature only reached 41 degrees Celsius. We exchanged presents early in the morning as my grandson, like all children who expect Santa, woke up early. The Christmas meal was served at noon, and cooked on the Barbecue and all of her friends and neighbours were there. In the afternoon after the cleanup, we went down to the river and cooled off for a few hours and then went back to the house to continue the celebration. 

Both experiences were unique and wonderful times and if we could travel I would have another Christmas in a hot area. My next trip would be to be to Maui.

Tech can help connect families at Xmas

 COVID changed the world, and one change it brought was the idea of virtual celebrations, such as Christmas. A few years ago, my brothers and I received a wonderful gift. We found we had a half-brother. I have talked about how we discovered each other, so I will not discuss it now. 

Before COVID, one of my nieces who understands technology and family asked if we could have a ZOOM Xmas Day gathering to meet our new brother and his family. She asked early enough and was able to convince all of us to gather. The only one who could not take part was my daughter in Australia. The time difference and the quality of her Internet prevented her from taking part.

On Christmas Day, my brothers and I host our own grown-up children and grandchildren for Christmas festivities and our meal. My niece had given us detailed instructions on how and when to set up the Zoom meeting, so at the pre-arranged time we met. 

It was great to see my brothers, their partners, and all the Nieces, nephews, and their children. My half-brother signed in and he brought along with his entire family, which was a very pleasant surprise. We met his sister, his children, their children, his nephews, and his nieces. 

It was a very interesting meeting, as everyone had to introduce themselves to their new family. I thought it was a magical time. In today’s interconnected world, families separated by distance can still enjoy meaningful Christmas celebrations through virtual gatherings, games, and activities. Because of that Christmas meeting, all of my brothers meet once a month over Zoom to connect, reconnect and keep up with what each of us is doing.

Unwrapping presents

 One thing I love about Christmas is the wrapping and unwrapping of gifts. Some people give a gift on Christmas Eve, while others wait until Christmas Day to exchange gifts. We give our gifts on Christmas morning. Gifts from family to family and from Santa to family surround the tree. We are lucky as Santa usually leaves one, if not two, presents for each member of the family. 

Every year we take turns playing Santa. Santa usually takes their time finding the correct present. Our routine is that each person gets their present and then each person unwraps while the rest of us wait. We wait, with anticipation; the act of unwrapping presents carries a kind of magic that transcends age. It taps into our emotions, evoking feelings of excitement, wonder, and anticipation. The process itself is akin to unwrapping layers of joy and discovery. 

The moment a gift is placed in our hands, the journey of anticipation begins. The wrapped package holds the promise of something wonderful. The unravelling of the paper creates a sense of suspense, similar to turning the pages of a thrilling novel or watching an enthralling movie. Each piece of paper brings us one step closer to uncovering the mystery within.

As we age, the act of unwrapping gifts becomes a tradition that connects us with the past. The sound of tearing paper and the anticipation of what lies beneath evoke a sense of nostalgia, reminding us of moments shared with loved ones. Unwrapping presents is linked to special occasions that we remember like birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries.. As the layers of wrapping paper fall away, we see the physical gift; but we also see the care and thoughtfulness that went into selecting and wrapping it. 

As the gift-giver, watching the recipient unwrap the present can be just as rewarding as receiving a gift for oneself. Unwrapping gifts is a two-fold experience: the joy of giving and the joy of receiving. For the giver, we see the excitement in the eyes of the receiver. We embrace the warmth that they smile and savour the genuine connection and affection shared by the giving and receiving of the gift. On the flip side, as the recipient, unwrapping a gift affirms the feeling of being cherished and remembered.

The magical appeal of unwrapping presents is in the concerto of feelings it orchestrates. Gifts represent connections, storytelling, and shared experiences that we can remember next year.

When to decorate the house for Xmas?

 When do you decorate your home for Christmas? I know some people decorate right after Halloween and others after November 11, and some wait until after the American Thanksgiving. We are old-fashioned in that we do not decorate until after December 1st. 

Holiday decorations have a magical power; they transform homes into captivating wonderlands, creating a cheerful atmosphere that brings joy, warmth, and a sense of togetherness to those who created it. As Christmas nears, families come together eager to plunge into a world of twinkling lights, sparkling ornaments, and creative displays that celebrate the holiday. Magic only lasts a short while, so decorations in a home to hold the magic should only be up for a short period. 

The process of turning homes into magical places begins with the careful selection of a theme. The chosen theme serves all the later decisions. Our theme is simple is better. We use lights as the cornerstone of our decor, with strings of white lights adorning our tree and fireplace mantel. We also use the white lights on the outside of the house on the eaves and the bushes. Banisters. The interplay of light and darkness we hope, creates an attractive glow that adds a layer of magic to our home.

Our Christmas tree is center stage. The tree becomes a painting for precious ornaments collected over the years. These ornaments have sentimental value, reflecting the personality and memories of the family. Some of the decorations are over 80 years old. These delicate hand-blown glass baubles to homemade crafts tell a unique story that contributes to the overall tapestry of holiday magic we are trying to create.

We used to have garlands of pine, holly, and mistletoe draped along banisters and mantels, infusing the air with the fresh scent of the outdoors.  We don’t do this anymore. I know that some people use ribbons and bows to add a touch of elegance to the decor. We have a adorned with pinecones, berries, and miniature ornaments, hanging on our front door to welcome guests as they enter our home.

A few years ago, I started buying my wife animated characters, from dancing Santas to synchronized elves, that bring a touch of playfulness that appeals to both young and old. Over time we have collected quite a few of these whimsical figurines. When they are turned on, they create enchanting songs and stories that transport visitors to other times and we hope to evoke a sense of nostalgia and wonder. 

To further immerse the senses, the sounds of holiday music fill the air, enhancing the ambiance and setting the mood. Ultimately, the transformation of homes into magical castles isn't merely about aesthetics; it's about creating an atmosphere that fosters togetherness, love, and the spirit of sharing. As loved ones gather around fireplaces, exchange gifts, and share stories over the big meal, the decorations serve as a visual reminder of the beauty of the season. This is the time to celebrate, reflect, and appreciate the warmth that can be found with friends and family/

Advent Calendars every day a gift for Dec

We celebrate the grand tradition of unveiling the advent calendar. This event every day makes the younger children tingle with anticipation. I love to see the children opening those little doors every day. For them, it is like a festive treasure hunt for the ultimate prize: December 25th.

Advent, that magical four-week prelude to Christmas, is like the warm-up act before the grand holiday performance. In Canada, where Christmas has its own fan club, it’s not just about the mistletoe and gingerbread houses. We’ve got carols, a jolly old man in a red suit and the age-old game of gift exchanging.

Now, here’s an interesting tidbit: scientific studies claim that the excitement of waiting for an event can be juicier than the actual event itself. It’s like building up to the season finale of your favourite TV show, only it’s the festive edition starring reindeer and sugar cookies.

Behold, the advent calendar–a German creation from the 1800s. Back then, they marked their days like excited kids waiting for candy by drawing chalk on their doors. It was all about celebrating Jesus’ birth and his encore appearance. Fast forward to today’s advent scene, and you’ve got options that are fun for adults as well. A few years ago, we created our own boozy advent calendar for my daughter’s partner. Because nothing says “merry” like a daily dose of spirits! And for the teetotalers, fear not, there are non-alcoholic versions too. Now, whether you’re unearthing a tiny gift from a pocket or liberating a treat from a drawer, the game remains the same. December turns into a daily present party–it’s like Santa plays Secret Santa all month long.

But guess what? Advent calendar etiquette isn’t as simple as “Jingle Bells.” Starting from day one isn’t about counting down; it’s counting up, like a reverse countdown that only Christmas could pull off. Or is it? Some wise souls on the internet claim starting from 24 and counting down is the new hip thing. So, really, there’s no definitive rule here. It’s all about personal flair, like decorating your Christmas tree with disco balls. You should by now, be fully embraced in the countdown, whether you’re counting up, down; happy advent-uring!

Traditions old and new are important

 Aldous Huxley said, “Consistency is contrary to nature, contrary to life. The only completely consistent people are dead.” I shared this quote because it’s easy to keep doing what we’ve always done, and this applies to Christmas and our traditions.

As I thought about this season, I realized as each Christmas comes and goes, we try to hold on to the old traditions to make Christmas consistent because we love the familiarity of the same. However, every year, we have the chance to create new traditions that will become part of our tradition and will be cherished for years to come. 

Whether it’s a yearly family photo in matching pajamas or a special outing to a local ice-skating rink, these new traditions breathe fresh life into the holiday As each holiday season ends, if we embrace new ideas and do things differently, we are left with a treasure trove of new Christmas memories. These memories, both old and new, remind us of the love, warmth, and joy that surround this time of year. 

Christmas memories are special because they come from traditions and new experiences. Carry the joy of this season with you and share the Christmas spirit throughout the year. May the memories you create continue to fill your lives with happiness and remind you of the true meaning of this 

Walking in a Winter Wonderland

 Annually, we undertake a journey to visit my brothers and their families after Boxing Day. We reserve the period between Christmas Day and Boxing Day for gatherings with immediate family and close friends. The distance to my brothers’ residences requires a four-hour drive including a two-hour ferry crossing. This enduring tradition, which has persisted since the 1980s, encompasses over forty years.

One event that happens on this visit is our annual family walk. There’s no better way to extend the warm feeling of a family than by immersing yourself in the delightful winter scenes that surround us. The act of stepping outside further fosters this sense of kinship. The holiday season is a great time to go on outdoor adventures that will energize you, create lasting memories, and add a touch of enchantment.

 My brothers and I, when we were younger, were runners and we were quite good at it, we now traverse at a more measured pace. The roots of these walks trace back to our early schooling years. During our school years (grades 1 to 3 for my brothers and grades 4 to 6 for myself), a two-mile path through fields, an orchard, and a wooded pathway was our daily route. This journey allowed for connection and talk, contributing to the foundations of our bond. Despite life’s divergent paths as adults, the tradition of walking together endures, providing continuity to our shared experiences. These strolls serve as occasions for reflective conversations and reconnections.

The company of our partners and our children has expanded the walking group over the years. The locales for these walks encompass local parks, trails, and residential neighbourhoods. Winter lends a unique charm to these surroundings, with frosted trees, illuminated homes, and the soft crunch of snow underfoot. The crisp winter air enhances the experience. My sister-in-law is a wonderful photographer, and she captures breathtaking views of the landscape or the people. For my brothers and me, these walks are laden with the echoes of yesteryear and interspersed with conversations that blend reminiscence and updates.

Holidays offer many chances to have fun outside and make lasting memories. Engaging in such activities imparts a touch of magic to the festive season.

Taking a winter walk during the holidays, for me, allows me to enjoy the peace and charm the holidays bring. So, I hope you get a chance over the holiday to go for a walk and enjoy the serenity that winter offers.

Little things mean a lot

 The adage “It’s the little things that count” holds true, especially during the Christmas season. During the busy holiday season, it's important to enjoy the small things that make Christmas special. This includes decorating, gift-giving, taking photos, and connecting with loved ones who can't be there.

Along with the big celebrations, it's important to enjoy the little things like reading or taking a walk in the winter air. These activities and serene moments provide a sense of calm amidst the overwhelming holiday rush. Enjoying a peaceful morning with coffee or admiring Christmas lights can make the holiday unforgettable.

Unfortunately, many of us become entangled in the frenzied pace of the season, neglecting to relish the stillness it offers. We need to take the time to appreciate moments of rest, relaxation, and quality time spent with ourselves or our loved ones. Christmas is not only about connecting with family and friends but also with our inner selves. By doing so, we can enter the new year with renewed hope, joy, and a surplus of positive energy. Embracing not just the grand events but also the little delights of Christmas time paves the way for this transformative experience.

Christmas Songs

Tis the season of Christmas songs, and I fondly recall my childhood days when I aspired to master the lyrics of "Good King Wenceslas" and "Walking in a Winter Wonderland" for the school Christmas concert, in an attempt to impress the parents.

Back then, the radio stations in town began playing Christmas songs about a week before Christmas, gradually increasing the festive tunes until Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, when only Christmas songs, both secular and religious, filled the airwaves.

Over time, the stations upped their Christmas music airplay. In the '80s, they started playing Christmas music around two weeks before Christmas, and by the end of the decade, one station dedicated those two weeks entirely to Christmas songs. Eventually, the airtime for Christmas music extended further, and nowadays, some stations begin playing it after the American Thanksgiving in late November, with many stations exclusively featuring Christmas songs throughout December.

However, too much of a good thing can be overwhelming. Musical tastes are subjective, and I personally enjoy secular Christmas songs with a few hymns thrown in. Yet, being bombarded with 24/7 Christmas music on the radio is not my cup of tea. I understand that radio stations compete with streaming and satellite services, where individuals can indulge in Christmas music all year long. So, radio stations cater to their audience's preferences during the holiday season.

The influx of Christmas music from various music stars of different genres can sometimes miss the mark for me. While their fans adore these renditions, I find that 90% of the time, they don't resonate with my taste. Hence, during this season, I rely on my CD player and RadioCanada App to find stations that minimize the airplay of Christmas music.

If you're curious, there is an official top 40 most-streamed Christmas songs list. Below, I've highlighted the ones I personally enjoy from the list:

                                      TITLE                                                Artist

1       All I Want For Christmas Is You      Mariah Carey

2       Last Christmas                                  Wham!

3       Fairytale Of New York                     Pogues

4       Merry Christmas Everyone                                 Shakin' Stevens

5       Do They Know It's Christmas                              Band Aid

6      It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas   Michael Buble

7       Step Into Christmas                                            Elton John

8       Santa Tell Me                                                      Ariana Grande

9       I Wish It Could Be Christmas Everyday             Wizzard

10    Rockin' Around The Christmas Tree              Brenda Lee

11     Driving Home For Christmas                              Chris Rea

12     Merry Xmas Everybody                                      Slade

13     One More Sleep                                                 Leona Lewis

14     Underneath The Tree                                         Kelly Clarkson

15     Mistletoe                                                             Justin Bieber

16     Happy Xmas (War Is Over)                                 John & Yoko/Plastic Ono Band

17    It's The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year     Andy Williams

18    Wonderful Christmas time                           Paul McCartney

19     Holly Jolly Christmas                                          Michael Buble

20     Christmas Lights                                                 Coldplay

21    Jingle Bell Rock                                         Bobby Helms

22    White Christmas                                         Bing Crosby

23     Sleigh Ride                                                           Ronettes

24    Let It Snow Let It Snow Let It Snow               Dean Martin

25     Santa Baby                                                           Kylie Minogue

26    Mary's Boy Child/Oh My Lord                      Boney M

27     Christmas (Baby Please Come Home)               Darlene Love

28     Lonely This Christmas                                        Mud

29     2000 Miles                                                           Pretenders

30     Stop The Cavalry                                                 Jona Lewie

31     Santa Claus Is Coming To Town                       Michael Jackson & Jackson Five

32     Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas             Sam Smith

33     Let It Snow Let It Snow Let It Snow                   Frank Sinatra

34    Blue Christmas                                           Elvis Presley

35    Feliz Navidad                                             Jose Feliciano

36     The Christmas Song                                           Nat King Cole

37     Baby It's Cold Outside                                       Idina Menzel, Michael Buble

38     Christmas Time (Don't Let The Bells End)         Darkness

39     Santa Claus Is Coming To Town                       Michael Buble

40     Santa's Coming For Us

Additionally, there are some songs that aren't on the list but are among my top 20 favourites during this time of year:

"I'll Be Home For Christmas" - Bing Crosby

"Mele Kalikimaka (Hawaiian Christmas Song)" - Bing Crosby

"Santa Baby" - Eartha Kitt

"Winter Wonderland" - Dean Martin

"It's The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year" - Andy Williams

"A Holly Jolly Christmas" - Burl Ives

"Must Be Santa" - Bob Dylan

"Pretty Paper" - Roy Orbison

"Carol of the Bells" - Trans-Siberian Orchestra

"Grandma Got Run Over By A Reindeer" - Elmo & Patsy

During this festive season, I find joy in listening to this mix of Christmas classics and cherished songs and I hope you do as well. Tomorrow I will talk about the little things that make Christmas special for me.

Outdoor Christmas decorations do you do them?

 Ah, the dreaded Christmas decorating competition! Back in the good ol' '70s, it was all about simplicity and elegance. But then the '80s hit like a storm of glitter and inflatable snowmen, and suddenly everyone lost their marbles! It was like a holiday version of the Hunger Games - may the best-decorated house survive!

Driving through those neighbourhoods during the festive season was like entering a psychedelic wonderland. Twinkling lights blinded you, inflatable snowmen threatened to take over the world, and houses looked like they were auditioning for a role in a Christmas movie. It was pure madness, and I couldn't help but feel like I was in a cheesy holiday version of a Fast and Furious movie, with neighbours racing to outshine each other.

When we moved to our new house in the '90s, I thought I could resist the temptation to go overboard with decorations. I pledged to stay classy, like a Christmas version of James Bond - simple, yet elegant. But, alas, my willpower lasted about as long as a snowflake in a microwave. The neighbours' competition got to me, and I found myself smack dab in the middle of the tinsel tornado.

One year, I bought a massive, dancing reindeer for my lawn, thinking I'd claim the title of the "Christmas Decor King." But instead, I just felt like the reindeer had taken over my life, like some festive version of the Terminator.

It didn't help that our street ended up on the infamous "lights to see" tours that the local newspapers loved to hype up. It was like we became the Las Vegas strip of Christmas lights, attracting tour buses full of gawking spectators. I half-expected Elvis in a Santa suit to appear.

Finally, I saw the light (pun intended). I realized that the race for the gaudiest decorations wasn't worth it. I waved the white flag of surrender and returned to my simple but elegant ways. Just some lights around the windows and eaves were enough to spread the holiday cheer without becoming the neighbourhood's unofficial Christmas theme park.

Thankfully, my neighbours eventually came to their senses too. It took them a couple of years to snap out of their decorating frenzy, but sanity prevailed. No more tour buses, no more Christmas light paparazzi - just a bunch of folks enjoying the holiday season without competing in the Christmas Decoration Olympics.

So, let this be a lesson to all holiday decorators out there: Less is more, and you don't need a battalion of inflatable snowmen to spread the joy. Keep it simple, keep it classy, and let's bring back the good ol' days of tasteful Christmas cheer! Tomorrow I am going to talk about Christmas music.

How do you spend New Years Eve?

As the clock strikes midnight on December 31st, the transition from the old year to the new one occurs. New Year’s celebrations symbolize a period of introspection, rejuvenation, and optimism. With the start of a new year, we have the chance to make resolutions and strive for a brighter tomorrow.

In the early years of our marriage, my wife and I used to party with friends at local hotels or party venues. Over time, our celebrations shifted towards family gatherings. New Year’s Eve became an occasion for joy and rejoicing among ourselves, our parents, grandparents, and friends. As children entered our lives, we opted for a cozy get-together with loved ones to commemorate the event and create lasting memories.

My first New Year's Eve memories include staying up late to watch movies on CBC TV, Vancouver. Back then, Dick Clark’s New Year’s celebration in New York was yet to become a tradition. During my university years, practical considerations led me to work on New Year’s Day, earning double time, which necessitated avoiding staying up late.

One cherished tradition during those past gatherings was having one of the senior family members dress up as the Old Year. At the same time, we held a ceremony bidding farewell to the departing year and welcoming the New Year’s baby, amid the jubilant atmosphere of the guests.

As my children grew older, we celebrated at home, helping them stay awake until midnight. We would then go out to the streets, pots and pans in hand, to welcome the New Year with our neighbours and their children. This would help to create a feeling of togetherness in our community.

Our New Year’s Eve celebrations became more subdued and less extravagant as time elapsed. I watch old movies on streaming channels and try to stay awake till midnight, making me feel young again.

The significance of New Year’s Eve remains meaningful to us, representing a time to celebrate and reflect. As the year ends and another start, we gather to bid farewell to the past while embracing the future, filled with the anticipation of love, laughter, and joyous moments.

However, how we celebrate both individually and culturally has undergone notable changes over the years. In the past, celebrations were rooted in ancient rituals and traditional customs, centred around close-knit communities. Neighbours would come together for intimate house parties or communal street celebrations, emphasizing quality time spent with loved ones, sharing homemade recipes, and cherishing each other’s company.

Recent global events, such as the COVID pandemic, have seen an increase in the number of alternative means of celebrating this time of year. For example, my family’s adoption of virtual gatherings via ZOOM during Christmas. It is conceivable that our future New Year’s Eve celebrations might further incorporate technological advancements, enhancing connectivity and experiences through social media platforms.

In conclusion, observing New Year’s Eve has experienced some changes over the last several decades, evolving from age-old customs to modern festivities, from thoughtful reflections to global influences. Nevertheless, the essence of celebration, review, and hope that comes with the arrival of each new year will continue to unite us with our families and friends. As we bid farewell to the past while embracing the potential of the future, let us treasure our traditions while accepting the exciting possibilities that lie ahead. So how do you spend your New Year's Eve!

Presents better to give or receive?

My question is which gives more joy, the act of giving or receiving presents? Each creates lasting memories.

Every fall for some and in the first week of December for me, the hunt for the perfect gift begins. When my children were younger, we bought them way too much. They each received a present from Mom and Dad, one or two from Santa, then they received presents from the grandparents on both sides, the great-grandparents, uncles and aunts and cousins.

I think I was making up for when I was young. As I said, Christmas, when I was young, was a family affair, and we received one present from Santa and one from Mom and Dad. My birthday is close to Christmas and some years when the money was tight, I did receive a present from Santa, but I would have to wait for my birthday for my gift from Mom and Dad.

Every year, with loved ones in mind, we search high and low, trying to find something meaningful and unique that will bring a smile to their faces. there are countless thoughtful gift ideas that can show just how much we care. After all, the joy of giving is as satisfying as the joy of receiving. As we get older it is harder to find the ideal gift. When we were first married, finding the right gift was an adventure I loved to embark on, but I always started late. The act of giving helps develop a deeper connection and can strengthen relationships with those we love. Giving the ideal gift is an expression of love, appreciation, and gratitude,  I think that the thought and effort put into selecting the perfect gift can communicate how much we truly care about the person, making the act of giving an experience that brings us closer together. That is why it is an important part of the holiday for us.

On the other hand, receiving presents also evokes a unique sense of excitement and wonder. If we get the gift we did not expect or one that we need, it can remind us of the joy and innocence of childhood, where the anticipation of unwrapping gifts under the Christmas tree filled us with a sense of satisfaction. The act of receiving a present allows us to feel loved knowing that someone has taken the time to consider our preferences and desires.

There's something magical about both the act of unwrapping presents and watching someone unwrap your gift to them starting with the anticipation building with each torn piece of wrapping paper. From the satisfying rip of tape to the gasps of delight, the thrill of gift exchange is a cherished part of Christmas traditions. Whether it's the surprise of a long-awaited item or the sentimental value of a heartfelt gift, the excitement in the air is palpable and makes for unforgettable memories.

To answer my original question, the act of giving and the act of receiving presents each holds a unique place in our hearts and bring their own special kind of joy. When we give gifts, we experience a sense of fulfillment and happiness knowing that we've made someone else's day brighter. Seeing the joy on their faces and knowing that we've touched their hearts with our thoughtful gesture creates a warm and lasting memory that we can cherish for years to come. 

Receiving presents also brings a sense of surprise and discovery, especially when we receive unexpected gifts or those that hold sentimental value. These presents become cherished mementos, representing the love and thoughtfulness of the giver, and they remind us of the special bonds we share with them.

 Both giving and receiving presents are acts that create lasting memories. As we gather on Christmas day the unique, puzzling, or strange gift becomes a part of our Christmas story. The gift and the stories around them symbolize the essence of the holiday season - love, generosity, and sharing joy with one another. These memories weave themselves into the fabric of our lives, and every year, as we exchange gifts and witness the happiness of our loved ones, we are reminded of the beauty of giving and receiving.

Ultimately, the joy of giving and receiving presents during Christmas is interconnected and interdependent. The act of giving brings joy not just to the receiver but also to the giver, and the act of receiving brings happiness not only to the person receiving the gift but also to the one who gave it. It's a beautiful exchange of emotions and sentiments that enrich our lives and create cherished memories for years to come.

Boxing Day is a day for ... tomorrow I will explore what we used to do on this day, and for those of you who don't know what it was/is I will explain a bit of the history of the day.

We love to celebrate

Any excuse for a celebration, humans love to have a reason to have a celebration. Yesterday I listed a few of the religious holidays in December, so I thought the day before Christmas I would give a longer list than yesterday. Whatever your faith, enjoy your day of celbration

Buddhism

·       8 December Bodhi Day is a day of Enlightenment, celebrating the day that the historical Buddha (Shakyamuni or Siddhartha Gautama) experienced enlightenment (also known as Bodhi).

Christianity

·       Advent: four Sundays preceding Christmas Day

·       4 December Saint Barbara's Day the Feast of St. Barbara is celebrated by Artillery regiments across the Commonwealth and some western Catholic countries.

·       5 December Krampusnacht The Feast of St. Nicholas is celebrated in parts of Europe on 6 December. In Alpine countries, Saint Nicholas has a devilish companion named Krampus who punishes the bad children the night before.

·       6 December Saint Nicholas' Day

·       8 December Feast of the Immaculate Conception Day The day of Virgin Mary's Immaculate Conception is celebrated as a public holiday in many Catholic countries.

·       13 December Saint Lucia's Day Church Feast Day. Saint Lucia comes as a young woman with lights and sweets.

·       16–24 December Las Posadas procession to various family lodgings for celebration & prayer and to re-enact Mary & Joseph's journey to Bethlehem

·       December 21 Longest Night: A modern Christian service to help those coping with loss, usually held on the eve of the Winter solstice.

·       24 December Christmas Eve In many countries e.g. the German speaking countries, but also in Poland, Hungary and the Nordic countries, gift giving is on 24 December.

·       25 December and 7 January Christmas Day celebrated by Christians and non-Christians alike.

·       25 December Anastasia of Sirmium feast day

·       25 December–6 January Twelve Days of Christmas

·       26 December Saint Stephen's Day In Germany, Poland and the Czech Republic a holiday celebrated as Second Day of Christmas.

·       27 December Saint John the Evangelist's Day

·       28 December Holy Innocents' Day

·       31 December Saint Sylvester's Day

Hinduism

·       December 21 through 25 Pancha Ganapati: a modern five-day Hindu festival celebrated from in honor of Ganesha.

Historical

·       Saturnalia: 17–23 December – An ancient Roman winter solstice festival in honor of the deity Saturn, held on the 17 December of the Julian calendar and expanded with festivities through to 23 December.

·       25 December Malkh is a festival dedicated to the Deela-Malkh in Vainakh mythology. 25 December was the birthday and the festival of the Sun

·       25 December Mōdraniht: or Mothers' Night, the Saxon winter solstice festival. was an event held at what is now Christmas Eve by the Anglo-Saxon Pagan

·       25 December Dies Natalis Solis Invicti (Day of the birth of the Unconquered Sun):– late Roman Empire

Humanism

·       23 December HumanLight Humanist holiday originated by the New Jersey Humanist Network in celebration of "a Humanist's vision of a good future."[9]

Judaism

·       Hanukkah: usually falls anywhere between late November and early January

Secular

·       Mid-November and early January Yule: Pagan winter festival that was celebrated by the historical Germanic people.

·       21 December Yalda The turning point, Winter Solstice. As the longest night of the year and the beginning of the lengthening of days, Shabe Yaldā or Shabe Chelle is an Iranian festival celebrating the victory of light and goodness over darkness and evil. Shabe yalda means 'birthday eve.' According to Persian mythology, Mithra was born at dawn on 22 December to a virgin mother. He symbolizes light, truth, goodness, strength, and friendship. Herodotus reports that this was the most important holiday of the year for contemporary Persians. In modern times Persians celebrate Yalda by staying up late or all night, a practice known as Shab Chera meaning 'night gazing'. Fruits and nuts are eaten, especially pomegranates and watermelons, whose red color invokes the crimson hues of dawn and symbolize Mithra.

·       Koliada: Slavic winter festival celebrated on late December with parades and singers who visit houses and receive gifts.

·       3 December International Day of Disabled Persons

·       10 December Human Rights Day

·       13 December Salgirah celebration of Shia Ismaili Muslims of their Imam (Aga Khan IV)

·       15 December Zamenhof Day  Birthday of Ludwig Zamenhof, inventor of Esperanto; holiday reunion for Esperantists

·       21 December Soyal: Zuni and Hopi a celebration of the solstice by the Zuni and Hopi

·       21 December Solstice.

·       22 December Dongzhi Festival – a celebration of Winter

·       25 December Newtonmas As an alternative to celebrating the religious holiday Christmas, some atheists and skeptics have chosen to celebrate December 25 as Newtonmas, due to it being Isaac Newton's birthday on the old style date.

·       26 December Boxing Day.

·       26 December–1 January Kwanzaa– Pan-African festival celebrated in the US

·       31 December–before dawn of 1 January Hogmanay Scottish New Year's Eve celebration

·       31 December New Year's Eve last day of the Gregorian year

·       31 December Watch Night A day where people celebrate the ending of the year and watch for the dawn of the new year

Unitarian Universalism

·       Chalica: first week of December – A holiday created in 2005, celebrated by some Unitarian Universalists.

Merry Christmas and happy holidays

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL! Here are two poems to help you enjoy and think about the day!

I Saw Three Ships Anonymous Americas

I saw three ships come sailing in 

On Christmas day, on Christmas day;

I saw three ships come sailing in

On Christmas day in the morning.

And what was in those ships all three,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day?

And what was in those ships all three,

On Christmas day in the morning?

Our Saviour Christ and his lady,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day; 

Our Saviour Christ and his lady,

On Christmas day in the morning.

Pray whither sailed those ships all three,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day?

Pray whither sailed those ships all three,

On Christmas day in the morning?

O they sailed into Bethlehem,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day; 

O they sailed into Bethlehem,

On Christmas day in the morning. 

And all the bells on earth shall ring,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day; 

And all the bells on earth shall ring,

On Christmas day in the morning.

And all the Angels in Heaven shall sing,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day;

And all the Angels in Heaven shall sing,

On Christmas day in the morning.

And all the Souls on Earth shall sing,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day;

And all the Souls on Earth shall sing,

On Christmas day in the morning.

Then let us all rejoice amain,

On Christmas day, on Christmas day;

Then let us all rejoice amain,

On Christmas day in the morning. 

My Christmas Wish For You

By Ruth Kephart

My Christmas wish for you, my friend

Is not a simple one

For I wish you hope and joy and peace

Days filled with warmth and sun

I wish you love and friendship too

Throughout the coming year

Lots of laughter and happiness

To fill your world with cheer

May you count your blessings, one by one

And when totaled by the lot

May you find all you've been given

To be more than what you sought

May your journeys be short, your burdens light

May your spirit never grow old

May all your clouds have silver linings

And your rainbows pots of gold

I wish this all and so much more

May all your dreams come true

May you have a Merry Christmas friend

And a happy New Year, too.

His mother Mary of Nazareth

Sat watching beside his place of rest,

Watching the even flow of his breath,

For the joy of life and the terror of death

Were mingled together in her breast.

They laid their offerings at his feet:

The gold was their tribute to a King,

The frankincense, with its odor sweet,

Was for the Priest, the Paraclete,

The myrrh for the body's burying.

And the mother wondered and bowed her head,

And sat as still as a statue of stone,

Her heart was troubled yet comforted,

Remembering what the Angel had said

Of an endless reign and of David's throne.

Then the Kings rode out of the city gate,

With a clatter of hoofs in proud array;

But they went not back to Herod the Great,

For they knew his malice and feared his hate,

And returned to their homes by another way.