The following looks at one persons view of the top twenty self help books that they have read, I have read most of the books and found them to be interesting and informative. If you are on a journey of self discovery then take the authors advice and find these books or the books I mentioned a few days ago and read them, internalize their message and then act on the advice as you interpret the author. The author of this article is Matt Morris / The Unemployed Millionaire
After
more than a decade as a public speaker, I've been asked hundreds of times for
the best self help books that have made the biggest impact in my life.
After
having read hundreds of books in my 18 years as an entrepreneur, I have to
admit, it was tough narrowing the list of the best self help books of all time
down to only 20. I feel self help encompasses spirituality, financial,
physical, relationships and many, many more areas of our lives. Needless to
say, this best self help books list is by no means the end all, be all. There
are no-doubt many others that will add tremendous value to your life.
For
each of the best self help books on this list, I give my highest
recommendation. With the new year upon us, I encourage you to jump out of your
comfort zone and pick several of these to add to your library and read this
year.
So
here goes…. (drum roll, please)
Top
20 Best Self Help Books of All Time
1.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
The
Alchemist is the magical story of Santiago, an Andalusian shepherd boy who
wants to travel in search of an extravagant treasure. From his home in Spain he
journeys to the markets of Tangiers and across the Egyptian desert to a fateful
encounter with the alchemist. The story of the treasures he finds on his
journey teaches us about the essential wisdom of listening to our hearts,
learning to read the signs along life's path, and, above all, following our
dreams.
2.
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
Covey
presents a holistic, integrated, principle-centered approach for solving
personal and professional problems. With powerful insights and spot on
anecdotes, Covey reveals a pathway for living with fairness, integrity,
service, and human dignity–principles that give us the security to adapt to change
and the wisdom and power to take advantage of the opportunities that change
creates.
3.
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
Tolle
takes readers on an inspiring spiritual journey to find their true and deepest
self and reach the ultimate in personal growth and spirituality: the discovery
of truth and light. In writing about enlightenment, he introduces you to it's
natural enemy, your mind. He goes further by showing readers how to live in the
present moment.
4.
Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki
Kiyosaki
tackles the "financial literacy" that's never addressed in schools.
He had two father figures growing up. One who struggled paycheck to paycheck
for a lifetime whom he called "poor dad" and the other who was a
multimillionaire eighth grade dropout he lovingly calls "rich dad".
The concept behind the book is that rich people have money work for them while
the poor work for money. This is a must read to change anyone's negative belief
system on money or to further your understanding on how money can work for you.
5.
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
This
is one of the most timeless self help books ever written. Carnegie believed
that most successes come from an ability to communicate effectively versus
brilliant insights. This book teaches these skills by showing you how to value
people and help them feel appreciated rather than manipulated.
6.
The Road Less Traveled by M Scott Peck
When
a book opens with "Life is difficult", you know it's going to wake
you up and provide you with some candid lessons. His timeless voice in The Road
Less Traveled continues to help us explore the nature of loving relationships
and leads us toward a new peace and fulfillment. You will learn how to
distinguish dependency from love; how to become a more sensitive parent; and
ultimately how to become one's own true self.
7.
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Hill
was one of the first ever self help authors, and his books are incredibly
relevant today. Think and Grow Rich condenses his laws of success and provides
you with 13 principles of personal achievement. It is noted that an individual
with desire, faith, and persistence can reach great success by eliminating all
negative energy and thoughts and focusing at the greater goals in hand.
8.
The Four Agreements by don Miguel Ruiz
This
self help book is rooted in traditional Toltec wisdom, four agreements in life
are essential steps on the path to personal freedom. As beliefs are transformed
through keeping these agreements, shamanic teacher don Miguel Ruiz asserts
lives will "become filled with grace, peace, and unconditional love."
9.
As a Man Thinketh by James Allen
This
is considered a classic self-help book that inspired future books on the law of
attraction. Its underlying premise is that noble thoughts make a noble person,
while lowly thoughts make a miserable person. James Allen reveals how our
thoughts determine reality. He shows you how you can master your thoughts to
create the life you want instead of simply drifting through life unaware of the
inner forces that keep us held in failure and frustration.
10.
Man's Search for Meaning by Victor Frankl
This
self help book has riveted generations of readers with its descriptions of life
in Nazi death camps and its lessons for spiritual survival. Frankl argues that
we cannot avoid suffering but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning
in it, and move forward with renewed purpose. He holds that our primary drive
in life is not pleasure but the discovery and pursuit of what we find
meaningful.
11.
See You at the Top by Zig Ziglar
As
one of America's most gifted speakers/authors in motivation, the late Zig
Ziglar shares the secrets of climbing the stairway to personal success. He
presents a proven program of self-development based upon the foundation of a
winning self-image.
12.
The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
In
the rain forests of Peru, an ancient manuscript was discovered. It includes 9
key insights on life. Drawing on ancient wisdom, it shows you how to make
connections among the current events in your life and let's you see what is
going to happen to you in the future. This book can help you understand why you
are where you are in life and align you with a new optimism for your future.
13.
The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale
Dr.
Peale shows you 10 simple rules to obtain confidence, 3 proven secrets for
vigor, 5 techniques to overcome defeat and much, much more. This book proves
that an attitude can change lives, win success in all things, and overcome
obstacles.
14.
The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles
Originally
published in 1910, this book takes the mystery out of wealth accumulation and
breaks it down into a scientific formula. The text is divided into 17 quick, no
nonsense chapters that show you how to oconquer mental barriers, and how
creation, not competition, is the true key to attracting wealth.
15.
The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra
Chopra's
teachings are summed up in 7 simple principles which can be applied to all
areas of your personal life to create success. Chopra's basic premise is that
personal understanding and harmony promote fulfilling relationships and
material abundance without extra effort. Each of the chapters provide specifics
on how to achieve it.
16.
The Magic of Thinking Big by David J. Schwartz
Millions
of people all over the world have improved their lives using this book.
Schwartz will help you sell better, lead more effectively, earn more money, and
(this is a big one) find more happiness and peace of mind.He proves that you
don't need innate talent to achieve massive success but you do need to
understand the habit of thinking and behaving in ways that get you there.
17.
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers
We've
all got fears which is why I love this book! Whatever your fear, here is your
chance to push through it once and for all. You'll discover how to move from
victim to creator, the 10-step process to turn off the negative talk in your
head and how to create more meaning in your life by overcoming those fears.
18.
Awaken the Giant Within by Anthony Robbins
Tony
Robbins is famous for his motivational speaking but this is, by far, one of the
best self help books of all time. Robbins shows you his most effective
strategies and techniques for mastering your emotions, your body, your
relationships, your finances, and your life through a step-by-step program
teaching self-mastery that enables you to discover your true purpose, take
control of your life and harness the forces that shape your destiny.
19.
The Power of Intention by Wayne W. Dyer
This
isn't your typical book on intention. Dyer has researched intention as a force
in the universe that allows the act of creation to take place. This book
explores intention—not as something you do—but as an energy you're a part of.
We're all intended here through the invisible power of intention. He's the
first in our industry to look at intention as a field of energy that you can
access to begin co-creating your life with the power of intention.
20.
What to Say When You Talk to Your Self by Dr. Shad Helmstetter
Don't
overlook this book because it's #20 on my Top 20 Best Self Help Books of all
time list. I've recommended this book to many friends and family members who's
lives have been changed dramatically as a result of reading this book. Self
doubt? Read this book. In secure about anything? Read this book. I'm sure you
get the idea.